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Topic: Book Reviews??

WhiteCarrera
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Posted: 11:46 AM, August 18th (Wednesday), 2010

I know there are several good (and some not-so-good) books out there. Can any of you help out with your own reviews of books you have read that may have been helpful? There is a long list of books in the healing library, but it's hard to know where to start. Thanks.

If I want recovery, then I must allow for it to actually happen.
Is it possible that I actually do have all the truth now?

me - husband A46
her - wife A42
Married 17 years
D-Day August 2, 2009
3 kids 11, 13, and 15

Posts: 288 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Midwest

Deeply Scared
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Posted: 11:47 AM, August 18th (Wednesday), 2010

We have a book forum...I'll move your thread there

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

Posts: 210060 | Registered: May 2002

WhiteCarrera
♂ 29126
Member # 29126

Posted: 12:35 PM, August 18th (Wednesday), 2010

Sorry - I'm an idiot. I never realized there was an entire Book Forum. I guess I never scrolled down that far in the forum list.

Thanks.

If I want recovery, then I must allow for it to actually happen.
Is it possible that I actually do have all the truth now?

me - husband A46
her - wife A42
Married 17 years
D-Day August 2, 2009
3 kids 11, 13, and 15

Posts: 288 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Midwest

notasaint
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Posted: 2:47 PM, August 18th (Wednesday), 2010

For me the most helpful books have been:

Not Just Friends by Shirley Glass

After the Affair by Janis Spring

Surviving Infidelity by Rona Subotnik

Me - BW 36
Him - FWH 38 SLA (newlywednupset)
M < 1 year
D-days 8/2009 and 4/2010 TT to 10/2010
3 OW over the course of 2 years, all older, one married.
* My husband was in an open relationship from day one, he just failed to tell ME this.*

Posts: 1048 | Registered: May 2010 | From: FL

looking forward
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Member # 25238

Posted: 6:38 AM, August 19th (Thursday), 2010

How Can I Forgive You? The Courage To Forgive, The Freedom Not To
by Janis Abrahms Spring, Ph.D.
She is also the author of After The Affair.

Forgiveness: How To Make Peace With Your Past And Get On With Your Life by R. Sidney B. Simon & Suzanne Simon

Living the Truth by Keith Ablow, md

Memory and hope; one looks backward, and the other forward; one is of today, the other of tomorrow. Together more than 49 years.
"Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain." (Joseph Campbell)

Posts: 3197 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: Where a river runs through it

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