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User Topic: Perfection
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Default  Posted: 7:13 PM, November 28th (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

New York Times Bestseller: Pefection, a memoir of betrayal and renewal by Julie Metz.

Picked it up this weekend, but haven't started it. Anyone read it?

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Posts: 5906 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: My own fantasy land
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Default  Posted: 10:45 PM, December 9th (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I read it. It was good, but I didn't love it. I think I read it too soon after my separation and kept thinking that I didn't need a book to bring out all the feelings I was going through already.

Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. - Mahatma Gandhi

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Default  Posted: 11:52 AM, December 10th (Friday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I started it but never finished. I could completely relate to the author when she had her DDay. However the way she handled things afterward I could not relate to at all. After awhile I just stopped reading it.

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Divorced after 23 years of M thanks to XH's truth trickle.
Status: Recovering and healing. It's going to be a long hard road.

Update November 2013: It only took seven years but I finally turned a corner. :)

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Default  Posted: 11:55 PM, December 23rd (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Did you read "Perfection", Jessy? My response to it was very similar to momof2's. I started reading it ages ago and initially couldn't put it down. But then I stalled.

I keep going back to it and reading a bit more, but I can't really relate to her post-discovery actions, either. (Especially in relation to Tomas.)

[This message edited by Cally60 at 11:57 PM, December 23rd (Thursday)]

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