[This message edited by kdny at 5:26 PM, January 22nd (Saturday)]
my husband refused to love me. He rejected my sexual needs and told me that my emotional needs were just too much for him. He wanted nothing more from me than a clean home and dinner on the table at 6:00.
and shameless self-promotion (which is against the guidelines of the board, by the way) make me want to
And I am a fWW myself, by the way.
[This message edited by kdny at 5:27 PM, January 22nd (Saturday)]
And how does your husband feel about you referring to your affair partner as the "love of your life?"
[This message edited by JanaGreen at 3:49 PM, January 22nd (Saturday)]
I think you might have better luck hawking your book on a forum for mistresses, not in a place where betrayed spouses are REELING from the pain of infidelity and wayward spouses are trying to heal as well.
[This message edited by JanaGreen at 3:58 PM, January 22nd (Saturday)]
It's the plain truth of the matter.
A whore.
And there's no soliciting on this site.
He was indifferent. I had an affair and he retreated further. We each made our mistakes.
He may have made mistakes. But, yours was not a mistake...It was a selfish, premeditated decision to piss all over your wedding vows. Nothing remotely romantic about it and certainly not a love story.
I agree with all the other posters. It's one thing to come here to seek support for doing the internal work of recovering from your DECISION to have an A. It's beyond believable to be here to profit from it.
The A might not make you a whore if you were honestly owning your shit, but seeking money for sleeping with someone definately does.
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
It's one thing to want to come here for support since you BETRAYED your H, your children and your marriage, but to flaunt and promote a book about having been a mistress....the numbers of BS'es feeling gutted by this must be astronomical.
This site is for the deeply betrayed and those who did the betrayal that want HELP and SUPPORT. It is NOT a marketplace for flaunting and selling your betrayal.
When I saw your handle, I had a feeling this was not going to be a good thing...
[This message edited by SierraGrace at 4:41 PM, January 22nd (Saturday)]
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[This message edited by Rise_Above at 5:06 PM, January 22nd (Saturday)]
***** God's hand was an avocado branch
Are you freaking serious?? What a slap in the face to your betrayed husband and your affair partners wife.
You know what? Go check out the Just found out forum...... take a look at what your "true love forever" does to the other people.
Talk about self indulgent and selfish... the affair was for you, the book is for you and of course the reconciliation is for you.....
wow.
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
