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SierraGrace (original poster member #24259) posted at 1:41 PM on Wednesday, January 26th, 2011
Has anyone read Women Who Love Psychopaths, Inside the Relationships of Inevitable Harm With Psychopaths, Sociopaths & Narcissists by Sandra L. Brown
I bought it, haven't read it yet but plan to start and was wondering if anyone else had heard of it or read it.
I subscribe to her newsletter and each one has a featured article. The last two hit home. It sounds like making a case for the 180 otherwise continue to be drawn into their drama and trauma. Even though I haven't seen or been around xWSO in a long time I'd still been letting him draw me in via phonecalls and texts and this makes a case for cutting him off from contact completely.
Apparently since the material is copyrighted I thought I'd better delete it and just provide the website insead:
www.saferelationshipsmagazine.com
[This message edited by SierraGrace at 4:05 PM, February 2nd (Wednesday)]
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unicornsearcher ( member #912) posted at 2:00 PM on Wednesday, January 26th, 2011
I haven't read the book but that's great stuff! 
11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.
SierraGrace (original poster member #24259) posted at 2:04 PM on Wednesday, January 26th, 2011
Hi Uni! I've been subcribing to her e-newsletter for at least a year and haven't gotten the hint until now....slow learner I am!
This fits my interaction to him to a tee. The things he has said and done had continued to create emotional reactions in me and I can't remember what it's like to NOT have the adrenalin rushes so it's time for me to "get it" that he truly has a disorder that is long since out of my hands.
He called three times last night to my no answer....and I need to read and re-read this AND the book to continue to gain and maintain my strength in this very sick situation! 
BSO(me): 60-ish! How did THAT happen? Was only 50-ish when I first joined in 2009!
Mom to rescued fur-kids
Formerly joined due to awful WSO and took a long @ss time to work my way out of that, but finally did January 2022
unicornsearcher ( member #912) posted at 5:55 PM on Wednesday, January 26th, 2011
Well, I'm proud of you for resisting getting back on the wacko rodeo with him. It's really a tuff habit to break, but you're getting there.
Did I miss the link to the site? I'd like to get the emails too. I'm not married to or love a psychopath but I am related to more than one, sigh... 
11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.
SierraGrace (original poster member #24259) posted at 8:04 PM on Wednesday, January 26th, 2011
Sorry Uni...here's the link:
http://saferelationshipsmagazine.com/
On the right hand side you will see where you can sign up for her newsletter that has the articles I posted above.
Really insightful stuff that I was admittedly resistant to for a while but just like I should have BELIEVED the red flags as they were popping up with him, it all continues to fall in place though has been a slooooow and loooong process. 
BSO(me): 60-ish! How did THAT happen? Was only 50-ish when I first joined in 2009!
Mom to rescued fur-kids
Formerly joined due to awful WSO and took a long @ss time to work my way out of that, but finally did January 2022
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