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The Book Club :
suggestions on good resource books for dealing with affair

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 2crazykids (original poster member #30515) posted at 9:14 PM on Thursday, January 27th, 2011

just ordered "not just friends" and journey from ababndonment to healing. are there any other good resource books that will help

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If you marry a man who cheats on his wife,
you'll be married to a man who cheats on his wife.All you are is mean
And a liar, and pathetic, and alone in life

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trumanshow ( member #25624) posted at 10:05 PM on Thursday, January 27th, 2011

In addition to NJF:

You, Him, and the Other Woman

The Script

Divorce Busting and Divorce Remedy

Surviving Yor Husband's Midlife Crisis

remarried 11-15-15

Her prize is a man who ran out on his wife and children. His is a woman who is too stupid to understand that she is not special, she is simply there.

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lost43 ( member #30828) posted at 1:12 AM on Friday, January 28th, 2011

I liked After the Affair, after I found out about my H affair it was very hard to focus on much of anything and that book was a nice easy read...I did not like the book Repairing Your Marriage After His Afair...all I got out of that book was blah blah blah, baby your husband blah blah blah...

ME-BS 34
Jackass 32
Married 4.5 years
2 wonderful kids 12 and 3
been together off and on for 13 years.
I know my heart will never be the same..but I"m telling myself I'll be ok..Even on my weakest days..I get a little bit stronger-Sara

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looking forward ( member #25238) posted at 2:20 AM on Saturday, January 29th, 2011

What do you mean by "dealing"?

Forgiveness?

Reconciling?

Moving on?

ETA: I PMd you a LONG list of books and their synopses.

[This message edited by looking forward at 8:45 PM, January 28th (Friday)]

Together more than 57 years, Married 52 years. Sober since 2009. "You've always had the power, my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself." (The Wizard of Oz)

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Taurusinpain ( member #30284) posted at 2:00 PM on Saturday, February 5th, 2011

Sexual Detours by Holly Hein is not mentioned much but in my opinion was very good and touched quite a bit on FOO issues that made sense.

BW - 41
FWH - 43, SA since around 2005
Dday 4/9/10
Months and months of TT torture.
DD born 3/1/13
In R? Feels like going witht the flow.
Trying to get used to the new "normal"

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