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User Topic: suggestions on good resource books for dealing with affair
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Default  Posted: 3:14 PM, January 27th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

just ordered "not just friends" and journey from ababndonment to healing. are there any other good resource books that will help


If you marry a man who cheats on his wife,
you'll be married to a man who cheats on his wife.All you are is mean
And a liar, and pathetic, and alone in life

Posts: 931 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: missouri
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Default  Posted: 4:05 PM, January 27th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In addition to NJF:

You, Him, and the Other Woman

The Script

Divorce Busting and Divorce Remedy

Surviving Yor Husband's Midlife Crisis

Your ex wanting to be friends is like asking a kidnapper to stay in touch when they let you go.

The type of fierce loyalty that I possess made me incapable of comprehending the level of disloyalty that he possessed

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Default  Posted: 7:12 PM, January 27th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I liked After the Affair, after I found out about my H affair it was very hard to focus on much of anything and that book was a nice easy read...I did not like the book Repairing Your Marriage After His Afair...all I got out of that book was blah blah blah, baby your husband blah blah blah...

ME-BS 34
Jackass 32
Married 4.5 years
2 wonderful kids 12 and 3
been together off and on for 13 years.
I know my heart will never be the same..but I"m telling myself I'll be ok..Even on my weakest days..I get a little bit stronger-Sara

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looking forward
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Default  Posted: 8:20 PM, January 28th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What do you mean by "dealing"?

Moving on?

ETA: I PMd you a LONG list of books and their synopses.

[This message edited by looking forward at 8:45 PM, January 28th (Friday)]

Memory and hope; one looks backward, and the other forward; one is of today, the other of tomorrow.
Together almost 48 years.
"Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain." (Joseph Campbell)

Posts: 3047 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: Where a river runs through it
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Default  Posted: 8:00 AM, February 5th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sexual Detours by Holly Hein is not mentioned much but in my opinion was very good and touched quite a bit on FOO issues that made sense.

BW - 41
FWH - 43, SA since around 2005
Dday 4/9/10
Months and months of TT torture.
DD born 3/1/13
In R? Feels like going witht the flow.
Trying to get used to the new "normal"

Posts: 396 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: The worst place I can be - inside my own brain
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