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User Topic: 101 nights of grrreat sex
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Default  Posted: 6:59 AM, February 9th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Anybody used this book? I'm curious to buy it but I'd like to know a bit more about what some of the activities are. I don't mind trying new things but I do have a line I won't cross with some things.

Him (WS)-age 33
Me (BS)-age 32
Married 11 years
DDay1-07/2010, DDay2-12/26/2010
3 sweet kids-ages 5, 3 & 1
Reconciling-I think...
And even though it all went wrong,
I stand before the Lord of song
With nothing on my lips but hallelujah

Posts: 90 | Registered: Dec 2010
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Default  Posted: 9:27 PM, February 12th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I haven't but I'm curious about it now

I do know Cosmopolitan has the Kama Sutra book and they also have a 30-days of sex challenge with suggestions for different positions every night that you might look at.

BGF (me)- 27
FWBF (him)- 27

forgiven and in R :)

"To err is human.
To forgive,

<3 DS always

Posts: 993 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: Houston, TX
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Default  Posted: 3:06 PM, March 2nd (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Loved to hear if anyone has read the book. I'm in R and could use any new ideas or tips.

Posts: 71 | Registered: Oct 2010
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Default  Posted: 8:50 PM, March 10th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm a lurker and this is my first post but I have owned this book for years. It contains 52 pullout pages, half for men, half for women. The ones for the men are mainly fantasy situations, a few techniques, the women ones are mainly techniques and mood setting. Its fun, lots of ideas to freshen things up.

At one time he was a man standing on marbles. Now I am a woman standing on marble.....

We are done fighting with each other and decide to fight FOR each other.

Posts: 765 | Registered: Feb 2011
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Default  Posted: 7:03 PM, March 23rd (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Personally, I can't wait until I'm in a position (no pun intended) to need a book like this!!

Posts: 83 | Registered: Mar 2011
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Default  Posted: 1:12 PM, April 4th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks! Definitly going to find this book!

Me- BW 36
Him-WH 42
Married 16 years, Together 18
2 DSs - 16 & 7, SS-20
OW -31
DDay - 05/01/2010

In counseling

Posts: 48 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: TX
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Default  Posted: 4:38 PM, April 4th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Not that I have any need for it now but...
101 nights

30-days of sex challenge with suggestions for different positions every night

A new position ever night? Is it one of those articles that expects you to be a professional contortionist?

Posts: 14418 | Registered: Jun 2005 | From: Massachusetts
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Default  Posted: 10:08 AM, April 7th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I gave this book to FWH for Valentines Day, sort of a couples gift.

I was going to go first, so we picked out a page/envelope from the "Her" pages, and I haven't been able to do it yet. First of all it is something that is outside of my comfort zone, but not crazy stuff, just outside my comfort zone. But, the set up is important and I haven't been able to set it up right yet. So, it has been waiting to be done since Valentines Day. *sigh*

I should have my FWH pick out an envelope for *Him* and see if he has better luck, because really it would be fun. Oh, you are supposed to keep it a secret from each other.

BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson

Posts: 13323 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
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Default  Posted: 8:12 AM, April 11th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just bought it but haven't cracked it yet!

Me-34years old
husband (cheater)-39
4 amazing kids
Girl-age 10
Boy/girl twins age 6
in counseling constantly but pain is excrutiating. He wants

Posts: 316 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: knoxville, tn
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Default  Posted: 4:19 PM, April 12th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We got this book years ago, and never finished it. We ended up taking turns each week, and it was fun. Some things get a little expensive, which was tough for us on a budget, but there was some fun things in there. If anything is out of a persons comfort zone, they can just take a "pass" and pull a different envelope. Not real sure why we didn't finish it. Just kinda got set aside and life went on. I'm usually the one that initiates that kind of stuff, and I think I got tired of reminding her that it was her turn.

Dday: 06/97

Doing better for about 7 solid years.

Reconciled for 20 years....

Posts: 181 | Registered: Mar 2011
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Default  Posted: 5:38 PM, April 12th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I got this book years ago and loved it! Matter of fact, I think I may need to purchase a new one!!!

Posts: 959 | Registered: Sep 2006 | From: Southern California
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Default  Posted: 6:51 PM, April 12th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I also bought his book for my h for Valentines Day. It has sat on the nightstand since then because we have been out of town so much. It looks fun though. Can't wait to see if he picks it up after he gets back.

Posts: 466 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: Florida
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Default  Posted: 12:29 PM, April 30th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I got it and it turned into a big trigger fest. Time to put it in the back of the shelf until I'm stronger.

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