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User Topic: Not Just Friends
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Default  Posted: 7:29 PM, March 1st (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Not Just Friends" by Shirley Glass, PhD.

It was our compass right out of the gate.

Especially relevant for the workplace affair that "happened out of nowhere".

If we had read this book prior to four months ago, he would have realized what he was doing much sooner.

It's all I can do not to send a copy to every person in his workplace.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

Posts: 29076 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
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Default  Posted: 2:48 PM, March 2nd (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This book helped my husband understand what an EA is and how easily they can happen if we don't protect our marriage. This book saved me and really helped me understand all that I was thinking and feeling was normal. I highy recommend this book!

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Default  Posted: 2:54 PM, March 2nd (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, I'll take all the book tips I can get.

Posts: 69 | Registered: Feb 2011
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Default  Posted: 1:47 PM, March 3rd (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The book helped me tremendously. Fully the best single book, of the many I read while going through the whole craziness of infidelity and then divorce.

I thought the book was so excellent I ended up giving a copy to my husband. He claims he and OW read it, and they both thought nothing in the book applied to them, or our situation.

[This message edited by luv2swim at 5:01 PM, March 3rd (Thursday)]

Me: BS
Him: WS
Married 24 years -
2 fantastic kids!

divorced 2009

D day: 2006 ... he left to live with OW.
Divorced: 2009
WS + OW: Married and still together (as far as I know).

Posts: 402 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: US
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