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Just heard an interview with the author of this book Richard Nocera who maintains that it is impossible for men to be monogamous. Infidelity is not a crime and should be accepted. Has anyone read the book?

Haven't heard about the book but it sure sounds like a bunch of crap to me - so men haven't evolved past the point of thinking with their d*cks????? (yes, true in some cases - I pity us if that is true for most cases.).

Love the title though! Thought it would be more about female empowerment though.

I guess since I am up in the middle of the night with my insomnia that I will google the author and see what he spoutts.

While his 40 years experience as a hairdresser is an impressive credential, I remain skeptical as to the usefulness of his research, which appears to comprise in its entirety of his listening to customers bitch or fantasize while he tweezes brows and trims forelocks. I'll have to check and see about classes in Evolutionary Biology and Sociology at the local beauty school next time I drive by.

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Also, it depends on how you define vagina, exactly.

[This message edited by StillGoing at 8:35 AM, November 28th (Monday)]

While his 40 years experience as a hairdresser is an impressive credential

What about lying? Should that be accepted?

You know, if they want an open marriage find someone else who wants one. Be above board.