Cheating Hurt by Infidelity
Betrayal Wayward Donations lying
Welcome

Forums

Guidelines

Find a Local Counselor

The Healing Library

Media

Contact Us
lies
cover
In Association with Amazon.com
Support
Infidelity -
-

SurvivingInfidelity.com Forum Archives

like us on facebook
You are not logged in. Login here or register.
[Register]
Newest Member: Remember (46025)

User Topic: Books on Borderline Personality Disorder
tornasunder
♂ 29300
Member # 29300
Default  Posted: 2:56 PM, January 19th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How are "Stop Walking on Eggshells" by Paul Mason and "I Hate You--Don't Leave Me" by Jerold J. Kreisman? Are there any other titles that are recommended?


Me BS (32); STBXW (31); Married 10 Years; DDay1 03/2010; DDay2 01/2012
Divorced 07/2012

Posts: 204 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: North Dakota
Helen of Troy
♀ 26419
Member # 26419
Default  Posted: 6:38 PM, January 19th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I read both and even got the Eggshells accompanying workbook. Both books if I remember correctly felt were geared more toward someone staying in a relationship with a Borderline. There wasn't much helpful to me on leaving one or co parenting with one.
If you are R or if this is for help with dealing with friend or other family member maybe they will be helpful to you.

Posts: 4728 | Registered: Dec 2009
InnerLight
♀ 19946
Member # 19946
Default  Posted: 9:37 PM, February 6th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I read the eggshells book for my older sister who hasn't been diagnosed but how else to explain her bizarre and cruel behavior?

I found it somewhat helpful. I think there is a range of behaviors with BPD and so some of them fit and some didn't. But overall is was clearly written.


BS, now age 54, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years M and 20 together. In some ways I have not 'gotten over it'. But I am resilient and have created a good life where I am mostly happy.

Posts: 5942 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Rural California
Topic Posts: 3

Return to Forum This Topic is Archived
adultry
madness  
© 2002 - 2014 SurvivingInfidelity.com. All Rights Reserved.