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User Topic: Your Favorite Cheating Song
bluecali
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Default  Posted: 11:23 AM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I play guitar (not very well, just play for fun). Soooo many songs resonate differently post DDay, particularly cheating songs. My personal fave is Your Cheatin' Heart, by Hank Williams. It can be very cathartic to play & sing. I'm looking for some other songs to add to my repertoire, so what's your fave cheating song? Think acoustic guitar.

(I do not play these songs for when FWW can hear. That would be mean.)


Me-BH
DDAY 12/1/11
Separated and uncertain

Posts: 398 | Registered: Mar 2012 | From: Elm Street
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 11:31 AM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zu9QM1LQR2g

Joey + Rory Cheater, Cheater My all time favorite cheating song. Acoustic guitar! Although it is from the BW perspective, I don't know if you could change the words enough to work for you.

This song was very cathartic for me in the first year after d-day. I would blast this song loud and yell/sing it and dance all through my kitchen and get my angries out. Still love the song, but don't need to get my angries out like that anymore.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9952 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
2oldforthis
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Default  Posted: 11:32 AM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just had to tell you that I love, Your cheating heart by Hank Williams. Of course; I new the song before I found out about my WS, so I guess now it has new meaning, but I can still listen to it.

A classic


He did not see what he had in me, what I saw in him I did not have!

Love kills slowly.


Posts: 1651 | Registered: Jun 2008
bluecali
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Default  Posted: 12:10 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

With a beautiful, sad melody:

Your cheatin' heart,
Will make you weep,
You'll cry and cry,
And try to sleep,
But sleep won't come,
The whole night through,
Your cheatin heart, will tell on you...

When tears come down,
Like falling rain,
You'll toss around,
And call my name,
You'll walk the floor,
The way I do,
Your cheatin' heart, will tell on you...

Your cheatin' heart,
Will pine some day,
And crave the love,
You threw away,
The time will come,
When you'll be blue,
Your cheatin' heart, will tell on you...

When tears come down,
Like falling rain,
You'll toss around,
And call my name,
You'll walk the floor,
The way I do,
Your cheatin' heart, will tell on you...


Me-BH
DDAY 12/1/11
Separated and uncertain

Posts: 398 | Registered: Mar 2012 | From: Elm Street
painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 12:11 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Carolina Chocolate Drops "Hit' Em Up Style"

Liz Wright "Leave Me Standing Alone"

Ani DiFranco. "Untouchable Face"

Alanis Morisette. "You Oughta Know"

Carrie Underwood "Before He cheats"

Bruno Mars. "Grenade"

Ashton Shepard "Look It Up"

Sia "Little Black Sandels"

Carrie Underwood "Wasted"

Garth Brooks "The Thunder Rolls"

And if you are feeling charitable and forgiving:  Darius Rucker "We All Fall Down"


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7140 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
neverendinghurt
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Default  Posted: 12:14 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ttuA1UEUAI0


I need a little time
To think it over
I need a little space
Just on my own
I need a little time
To find my freedom
I need a little...

Funny how quick the milk turns sour
Isn't it, isn't it
Your face has been looking like that for hours
Hasn't it, hasn't it
Promises, promises turn to dust
Wedding bells just turn to rust
Trust into mistrust

I need a little room
To find myself
I need a little space
To work it out
I need a little room
All alone
I need a little...

You need a little room for your big head
Don't you, don't you
You need a little space for a thousand beds
Won't you, won't you
Lips that promise - fear the worst
Tongue so sharp - the bubble burst
Just into unjust

I've had a little time
To find the truth
Now I've had a little room
To check what's wrong
I've had a little time
And I still love you
I've had a little...

You had a little time
And you had a little fun
Didn't you, didn't you
While you had yours
Do you think I had none
Do you, do you
The Freedom that you wanted bad
Is yours for good
I hope you're glad
Sad into unsad

I had a little time
To think it over
Had a little room
To work it out
I found a little courage
To call it off

I've had a little time
I've had a little time
I've had a little time
I've had a little time


The life of every man is a diary in which he means to write one story, and writes another; and his humblest hour is when he compares the volume as it is with what he vowed to make it.
James M. Barrie

Posts: 26043 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: Seattle
bluecali
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Default  Posted: 12:18 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

@SisterM: wrong gender for me, but great lyrics. I can see how you'd have some fun singing that one.

@painpain: Thanks for the list. That gives me some stuff to work on.


Me-BH
DDAY 12/1/11
Separated and uncertain

Posts: 398 | Registered: Mar 2012 | From: Elm Street
marzipan
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Default  Posted: 12:19 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Smile by Lily Allen.

Look up the video on youtube--It tells the story perfectly and you know why she's smiling. I love it.


me--Mean Batshit Crazy Pottymouth
him-- Swampy the WH
divorce DONE!!!!

http://soulmateshmoopies.wordpress.com/
PART 16-- "You are Such a Good Mother"


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Decorative
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Default  Posted: 12:29 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Take A Bow, Rihanna.


Me, BW 40
Him, FWH 39
LTA, final DDay 3.10
Happy. And amazed.
In recovery

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fencepost
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Default  Posted: 12:30 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"If you're gonna do me wrong, do it right"by Vern Gosdin
I end up listening to it if get past my 4th beer. (Neither of those is advisable since A. I become a blubbering mess)


Me:BH 45
Her: FWW 43
M 25 yrs
2 kids(19 boy,23 girl)
DDay1 2/23/06 DDay2 05/25/06
many broken NC attempts
Reconciled

Posts: 235 | Registered: Feb 2007
KeepCalm_CarryOn
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Default  Posted: 12:32 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Def. Carrie Underwood, "Before He Cheats"!

In fact...iPod activate!!!


You are not dealing with rational people or situations. Normal thought processes won't work...story of my life.

Me- BW, 30
Him- fWh, 36
Mostly R'd, minus a few scars...bought a house and got a puppy...And baby makes 3! She arrived August 2013


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openedupmyeyes
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Exclaimation  Posted: 12:42 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If only for one night...Creep by Luther van dross.

Sweet thing...chaka kahn

I used to love the vocals on these cuts... just never weighed the lyrics.


Me:54 BS
Him:55 FWH Trying to make me a believer?
Years married:37
:03-01-10: The day I learned the truth
Kids:Daughters 4 all grown and married.
Reconciliation is hard.
Really freakin' hard.

Posts: 767 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: The Great State of Texas
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 12:42 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NEH and marzi ~ love 'em both! Laxative in the coffee.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9952 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
If_I_Knew_Then
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Default  Posted: 1:00 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Eagles, Lyin' Eyes.


Me: BH 50
Her: WW 50
2 Adult kids
D-Day #1 (3 parts) 03
D-Day #2 6/11

Posts: 728 | Registered: Aug 2011
ACRC
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Default  Posted: 1:05 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hv8Wq7BuuII

Clay Walker
Then What


Me: BBF
Her: WGF

DDay: November 20, 2010
Currently working on R


Posts: 135 | Registered: Sep 2011
whyme8
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Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Rihanna Take a Bow
Beyonce The Best thing you never had
Irreplaceable


BW Me 39
WH Him 38
Together 22 years, married 2
4 kids: 2DD's 17 and 14, 2 DS's 9 and 8
years of unconfirmed PA's, Nov 11 ONS X2, Dec - now 3 month EA texts and phone calls.
I busted you idiot - I shoulda been a PI. Now get the hel

Posts: 59 | Registered: Mar 2012
SwitchedOnLotus
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Default  Posted: 1:08 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fleetwood Mac "Silver Springs", and Tomahawk "Captain Midnight".

Captain Midnight
Wake up, our past stops right now
I see light, must be you
Watch and learn, burning it blue

Blood boiling in slow motion
Only shines distortion
Don't be afraid

What? Are you surprised?
I'm stayin' alive, I spit in your eye
Drive a stake in you

Take me away, take me away
I gave you the world, it was all for you
But I'm sick and tired of wasting time, I want mine

Take me away, take me away
I gave you the world, it was all for you
Stinkin' lies, stinkin' lies, stinkin' lies

We'll die, tryin' to live so long
I can't wait and I should
Leave the phone of the hook

Don't be afraid
Don't be afraid
Don't be afraid


BS - SwitchedOnLotus, 35
WH - 40 4 Month EA/ PA D-Day 1:7-2009/D-Day 2: 10-29-2009
11-29-09 Began R/9-02-10 A in past,M bttr thn B4
"It isn't what happens to us that matters, but how we choose to interpret it and react"

Posts: 518 | Registered: Oct 2009
SwitchedOnLotus
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Default  Posted: 1:11 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Silver Spring lyrics

You could be my silver spring
Blue green colors flashing
I would be your only dream
your shining armour, ocean crashing
And did you say she was pretty
And did you say she loves you
Baby I don't wanna know

I begin not to love you
Turn around, see me running
I say I love you years ago
Tell myself you never loved me....no
And did you say she was pretty
And did you say she loves you
Baby I don't wanna know....oh no
And can you tell me was it worth it
Really I don't wanna know

Time cast it's spell on you
But you won't forget me
I know I could have loved you
But you would not let me

INSTRUMENTAL

Time cast its spell on you
But you won't forget me
I know I could have loved you
But you would not let me

I'll follow you down
Till the sound of my voice will haunt you
You'll never get away
From the sound of the woman that loves you
I'll follow you down
Till the sound of my voice will haunt you

Was I just a fool...You'll never get away
From the sound of the woman that loved you
Was I just a fool...I'll follow you down
Till the sound of my voice will haunt you
give me just a chance
(you'll never get away from the sound of the woman that loved you)
never get away
never get away
never get away
You could be my silver spring
Blue green colors flashing

[This message edited by SwitchedOnLotus at 1:12 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday)]


BS - SwitchedOnLotus, 35
WH - 40 4 Month EA/ PA D-Day 1:7-2009/D-Day 2: 10-29-2009
11-29-09 Began R/9-02-10 A in past,M bttr thn B4
"It isn't what happens to us that matters, but how we choose to interpret it and react"

Posts: 518 | Registered: Oct 2009
64fleet
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Default  Posted: 1:14 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

x2 for the Eagles-I play it often, esp when fWW is around.


time wounds all heels

Posts: 5405 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: deliverance land
nvr flt sch pain
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Default  Posted: 1:22 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

First cut is the deepest vanessa Williams
What goes around comes back around beyonce
Say my name destinys child
It's not right Whitney Houston god rest her soul
Gonna wash that man right outta my hair - no idea but I wish I could lol!
Cry me a river Justin timberlake
Wasn't me shaggy
Burn usher
Don't it make my brown eyes blue crystal Gayle
Crazy patsy cline
Dirty Diana Michael Jackson god rest him too
Crying Roy orbison
Heartbreaker dionne warwick
Get out kc and Jo jo
Don't speak no doubt
Anything by paramore!


BW-2gether 13 years, wed 09/09.
Dd1 OW1 6/7/2012 - 9 mnths pa/ea. Dd2 OW1 13/8/2010. Dd3 OW1 10/10, ons and ongoing ea.
Dd4 05/11 OW2 - EA/poss PA, plus other poss ONSs,other dodgy txts.
Dd5 03/12 date sites, sex chats & porn!
01/2013 - porno se

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