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User Topic: I did kind of a bad thng last night...(warning tmi)
HereWeGo62
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Default  Posted: 6:55 AM, April 8th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

TMI but not sexual

Ok, I am pretty embarrassed and ashamed to admit this but I gotta get it off my chest because I know it was wrong.

Last night I woke up at about 2am to the sound of my dog upchucking, you know that noise they make that goes on forever, nasty gasping followed by the inevitable Yaaaaak.

I was going to get up and clean it up (nice at 2am) but then I realized the dog puked on my WW's side of the bed (puked on the floor)so I thought to myself "she can clean it up when she gets up in the morning." Well I guess the noise from the dog woke my wife up too but she did not realize why she had been awakened.

She then got up to go to the bathroom, I almost told her about the barf but I didn't. About 3 seconds into her travels to the bathroom she went ankle deep (our dog weighs 110 lbs)and let out a blood curdling howl. She then 1 foot hopped to the bathtub. I pretended that I didn't hear anything, laughed a little and went back to sleep.

When she got up this morning I asked if she slept ok, she said she slept like a baby. I guess she had already compartmentalized the incident so it was like it never happened.

Two sad things stand out about this story:

1) Prior to A I would have been out of bed in a flash to clean up the mess, at the very least I would have warned her as she was getting up so she would not step in it.

2) That I now analyze the reason that she is not telling me, and how she is processing the trauma. Geeez.

Well at least she got one really clean foot out of the situation....

Happy Easter!!

[This message edited by HereWeGo62 at 6:55 AM, April 8th (Sunday)]


If there is reincarnation I hope OM comes back as a low water flush truck stop toilet!

Posts: 307 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Tx
waiting2see
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Default  Posted: 7:35 AM, April 8th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Maybe you have cleaned up enough messes for her. Haha

I see your point about compartmentalizing the incident. Did she clean it up or just step in it? It would be a remarkable thing to forget. Though maybe she is sound sleeper.

Anyway. Don't feel bad. Once someone rips your heart and tears it to shreds just to feed their own ego, well, things change.


me: BS
him: XWS

Much of your pain is self-chosen. ~Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet, 1923

"It's not livin' that you're doin' if it feels like dyin." Ray Lamontagne


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sullymeishadomi
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Default  Posted: 7:53 AM, April 8th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

HereWeGo....that's nothing! Wh got for dinner chicken a la basuda (basuda is.Spanish for trash). If anyone is interested in the recipe, lol?


People tell you exactly who they are...why expect them to be what they are not ....will be divorcing the selfish creep.

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twinkie
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Default  Posted: 7:58 AM, April 8th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well I guess I am an evil person cause I was LMAO!!


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girlsbird
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Default  Posted: 8:53 AM, April 8th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Totally brought giggles into my morning!


D-Day 10/28/10..almost admission 7/10 Reconciled. I was the betrayed

Posts: 1203 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: arizona
imarriedmymother
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Default  Posted: 9:39 AM, April 8th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gasp, Gasp, Gasp, Gasp, YaaaaaK The 180 works in mysterious ways.


M 24 yrs
DD 9/9/11
Drunken ONS w/aquaintance, EA/PA with co-worker. Moved in w/AP 10/1/11, Kicked Out 12/19/11
Recongealed

24 years down the tubes, but at least I lost my man boobs.


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Heavy Sigh
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Default  Posted: 9:57 AM, April 8th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm worried about the dog. Check out info on twisted stomach and bloat. Painful way to die, and larger dogs are very susceptible.

Sometimes they swallow whole objects, like socks.

We have dogs and I know they sometimes throw up from drinking water too quickly. But keep an eye on your large beast.

[This message edited by Heavy Sigh at 9:58 AM, April 8th (Sunday)]


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HereWeGo62
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Default  Posted: 11:00 AM, April 8th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

HS The dog is fine, at least he was smart enough to go over to her side of the room. After my WW did the ol slip n slide he scuried over to my side cause I am sure he expected some reprocussions. He got a big ol Scooby snack this morning, and we did our 3 mile walk around the lake. He is a good boy!!

My WW did the cleanup, cussing and whining the whole time. I think I will ask her why the paper towels are on the nightstand and see if she fesses up.


If there is reincarnation I hope OM comes back as a low water flush truck stop toilet!

Posts: 307 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Tx
Fractured.Us
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Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, April 8th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry, HereWeGo, but your post made me LOL! (hugs)


Married 21

This was not how it was supposed to end.


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WarehouseGuy
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Default  Posted: 11:45 AM, April 8th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He got a big old Scooby snack this morning


I love it!


WHG


If you see your ex with someone else--don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.

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gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 11:48 AM, April 8th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's the 'little' things that make life fun sometimes, isn't it?

Like hearing your WW step into a big old heaping pile of dog puke in the middle of the night......and then just letting yourself fall back to sleep. Ahhhh, priceless.

Thanks for the laugh!


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


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wantmyfamilyback
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Default  Posted: 11:59 AM, April 8th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Man, that makes me wish I had a dog. That totally made my day. It's sad, though, how we have to relate everything back to the A.


Me= BS 28
WH= 30
2 OWs
D-Day 1= 7/?/10
D-Day 2= 9/23/11
D-Day 3= 10/16/11
M= almost 9 years
K= DD 2 & DS 6 months
Status= changes almost daily.

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StepAside
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Default  Posted: 12:00 PM, April 8th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

After my WW did the ol slip n slide



Me 48yrs, king of douchebagastan- 50yrs STD infected bankrupt NPD sociopathic drunk thief
countless A's, he is a predator that targets losers like himself
Last Dday 04/12/2010-Divorcing if/when his cumdumpsters lend him some $ or balls to file

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Betrayeddaddio
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Default  Posted: 10:39 PM, April 8th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

schadenfreude - A malicious satisfaction obtained from the misfortunes of others.

Made me laugh....scooby snack and all

Anyway. Don't feel bad. Once someone rips your heart and tears it to shreds just to feed their own ego, well, things change.

Everything changes......


BH-42 WW-40 DD-5 DD-9 DD-11
D-Day 09/27/2010 Wayward wife had a 10 month A with married DB co-worker Separated Oct. 2013

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exhausted lady
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Default  Posted: 10:49 PM, April 8th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Too funny! And, I'm glad you let things roll and she had to clean up a mess on her own. Why is stuff like that always your job? You sound like me! Isn't it nice to just let life's unpleasant things happen without "fixing" everything?


Sometimes the hardest part of finally seeing through someone is accepting what you see...

God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to
change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.
-Reinhold Neibuhr


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Lost Lilly
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Default  Posted: 12:36 AM, April 9th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you!


D-Day #1: 1/7/12 - found out about afair

D-Day #2: 1/17-12 - started to find out about hookers

D-Day #3: end of 2/12 - found out hookers and affairs over lapped

D-Day #4: September 2012 - found out his "best friend" was the one to co


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BelleStar
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Default  Posted: 11:36 AM, April 9th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I too didnt warn WBF of the cat upchuck next to his side of the bed. He slept right through it but got up shortly after to go pee and stepped right in it...probably woke the neighbors and sent the family dog to hid under the chair with his yell.
You would have thought that he would have cleaned up the mess but I just couldnt stand to hear him wretch over trying to pick it up so I got up and did it. poor baby!

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