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User Topic: Chatted in the phone with ws just now
broken <3
♀ 35098
Member # 35098
Default  Posted: 5:46 PM, April 13th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hes stayin at his moms - I'm not sure how I feel about that... But he also says he wants to stop talking about the serial A... Well come on I just found out (heard from your lips) that they were PA... I'm upset and angry and yes I did kick him out last night... But half demanding that I "get over it" or "forgive him" - that's a kick in the teeth... And now he wants to stay there til tomorrow or Sunday or or or - and he works this weekend too... Said he wants some kind of semblance of sanity... I don't know maybe I'm just too tired and worn out to think much into this - but does anyone else smell something fishy?


Me - BS mother of 15 month old identical twin girls (conceived during HB)
Him - serial cheater
R? Still not sure if this is a deal breaker...

Posts: 459 | Registered: Mar 2012 | From: West coast Canada
broken <3
♀ 35098
Member # 35098
Default  Posted: 5:49 PM, April 13th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And to be honest I don't want to talk about it much anymore either - I suppose I got all the info I needed last night and there's no need to obsess anymore... He says it's like he's been under a microscope and being dissected lol almost said its like this is being shoved in his face... Whatever pal - whine whine


Me - BS mother of 15 month old identical twin girls (conceived during HB)
Him - serial cheater
R? Still not sure if this is a deal breaker...

Posts: 459 | Registered: Mar 2012 | From: West coast Canada
confused615
♀ 30826
Member # 30826
Default  Posted: 6:03 PM, April 13th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He shoved it in your face. If you dont talk about it,you wont get past it. If he wants to R he needs to go to IC to figure out his "why" or it will happen again. he needs to be 100% transparent,and give you acess to all of his online accounts and his phone. He needs to agree to MC,and be completely honest with you all the time.

He has a long way to go.

Dont settle for less.


BS(me)42
FWH 45
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Reconciled.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 8081 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
broken <3
♀ 35098
Member # 35098
Default  Posted: 6:20 PM, April 13th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's good to have a cool down I suppose - I'm not sure which way I want to go S or R? I never thought I would be hurt so bad by him :(
I'm screaming inside - just leave!! And then missing him :( and crying and crying and crying...


Me - BS mother of 15 month old identical twin girls (conceived during HB)
Him - serial cheater
R? Still not sure if this is a deal breaker...

Posts: 459 | Registered: Mar 2012 | From: West coast Canada
depressedandhurt
♀ 35147
Member # 35147
Default  Posted: 6:36 PM, April 13th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I feel the same way all day switch my mind every hour feel like I belong on the god damn 6th floor lol we suffer so bad because of their choices and are expected to move forward like ah no big deal well my husband don't mind talking about it he just asks that we have non- A conversations too hmmm that's all we think about damn it and they did it they don't want to talk about it all the like we want to think about it and allow it to take over who we are hmmm mc says to write out the pros and cons of staying and going and go from there

Posts: 50 | Registered: Mar 2012
broken <3
♀ 35098
Member # 35098
Default  Posted: 6:42 PM, April 13th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes this truly sux... Also he took the car - so I have to walk to the store... I can't even get out of bed this sux!!


Me - BS mother of 15 month old identical twin girls (conceived during HB)
Him - serial cheater
R? Still not sure if this is a deal breaker...

Posts: 459 | Registered: Mar 2012 | From: West coast Canada
Topic Posts: 6

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