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User Topic: Been busy... Checking in here ;)
broken <3
♀ 35098
Member # 35098
Default  Posted: 6:03 PM, April 18th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

All week I've been busy with appointments and bookin appointments etc
Yesterday I had a meeting with hr and my boss at work - looks like they are leaning towards me taking medical leave...
Today we finalized our taxes - it was quite the emotional draining experience...
I also went to the dr and got a note to provide to work... I'll drop that off at work tomorrow and let them know my plans to go on medical leave etc
Also tomorrow I may have my first IC and later I have a traditional healer comin to my home to cleanse it and me (I'm first nations - and I NEED to pick up my medicines again)
I hope you all are doing ok ((all))


Me - BS mother of 15 month old identical twin girls (conceived during HB)
Him - serial cheater
R? Still not sure if this is a deal breaker...

Posts: 459 | Registered: Mar 2012 | From: West coast Canada
Lucky
♀ 6864
Member # 6864
Default  Posted: 6:06 PM, April 18th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad you checked in. With all of this running around I sincerely hope you are taking care of yourself.


♥ WINE - the other fruit juice! ♥


Posts: 36162 | Registered: Apr 2005
confused615
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Member # 30826
Default  Posted: 6:20 PM, April 18th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Broken <3))))


BS(me)42
FWH 45
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Reconciled.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 8070 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
broken <3
♀ 35098
Member # 35098
Default  Posted: 7:04 PM, April 18th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks ((all)) it's now time for a nice hot bath and a glass of wine
Wishin you peace tonight and always - thank you SI for everything!!


Me - BS mother of 15 month old identical twin girls (conceived during HB)
Him - serial cheater
R? Still not sure if this is a deal breaker...

Posts: 459 | Registered: Mar 2012 | From: West coast Canada
Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 7:10 PM, April 18th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you for taking steps in a new direction! Step by step you can reclaim your self and your life.

I, too, am going to have people from my faith come to my home for a spiritual cleansing.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10128 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
broken <3
♀ 35098
Member # 35098
Default  Posted: 8:46 PM, April 18th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm really excited about the healer - he came recommended from a great friend and someone I feel is a mentor to me - he helped her thru her husbands death and also the "strange spirits" in her house - im happy to do this and I'm sure it will help me heal even just a little
Blessings to ((all))

[This message edited by broken <3 at 8:47 PM, April 18th (Wednesday)]


Me - BS mother of 15 month old identical twin girls (conceived during HB)
Him - serial cheater
R? Still not sure if this is a deal breaker...

Posts: 459 | Registered: Mar 2012 | From: West coast Canada
broken <3
♀ 35098
Member # 35098
Default  Posted: 6:21 PM, April 21st (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Healer came on thursday evening - omg it was amazing! He "swept" my house and then "brushed" me down - I could literally feel the negativity leaving my body as he pulled it out using reiki type healing... He was singing traditonal songs and at times even crying with me... I was shaking and the tears just streamed out of me... Afterwards the healer told me that my trauma and anger stems from burying a child (my nephew - I didn't tell the healer about him btw) and he said my eruption into rage over my ws actions was also because of my nephew - he said that because ws showed off his tattoo that were for my nephew to ow I flew into a rage - its one thing to betray me and quite another to betray my nephews honor etc... Just amazing... I feel lighter since


Me - BS mother of 15 month old identical twin girls (conceived during HB)
Him - serial cheater
R? Still not sure if this is a deal breaker...

Posts: 459 | Registered: Mar 2012 | From: West coast Canada
ineedtoleave
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Member # 29332
Default  Posted: 6:24 PM, April 21st (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so happy for you (((broken <3)))


BS(me)-52
WH-59
OW-43(married ex-Co-worker)
Married 6 yrs
DD#1: 3/19/10
DD#2: 5/11/10
Oh what a tangled web we weave, when first we practice to deceive.

Posts: 963 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Arizona
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