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User Topic: Do Yourself A Favor: Forgive
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Default  Posted: 11:29 AM, July 18th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

By Joyce Meyers..

It is helping me let go of some things I never believed possible. Very good so far.

BS(me) 34
fWH 38 (Epicallyfailedu)
OW/xBFF of 28 years
Four girls under 11
DDay: 6/5/2010

Posts: 2018 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: Michigan
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Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, July 23rd (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm interested in this - I had a long talk about forgiveness with a friend the other day.

His take is we first learn to forgive ourselves, then others. Until we can forgive we are bound to that problem or person as well as the negative feelings associated with it. Once we can forgive we can truly be free.

I never thought I'd ever consider forgiving XWH, but now I see it as possible down the line. Will I tell him? Probably not, because it's not for him, it's for me.

So I've been thinking a lot about this topic recently - I think I will check this book out.

[This message edited by persevere at 11:41 AM, July 23rd (Monday)]

Me: BW-46
Him: XWH-46

Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.

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Default  Posted: 5:50 PM, July 23rd (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I saw this recommended previously and put it on hold at the library.
Just had a message it's ready for pick up.
Looking forward to reading it and hoping for some help.

Divorced 1/3/14 after 31 years of marriage.

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