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Topic: Revenge of the Middle-aged Woman
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timestandsstill
♀ 29921
Member # 29921 |  Posted: 8:16 PM, July 28th (Saturday), 2012 |     |
Fictional story about WH who leaves for an OW. Good for a good cathartic cry - author's description of what the main character goes through when finding out is recognizable.
Now I haven't finished it yet, but it's pretty good for reading about an A from this perspective. I don't know what the "revenge" is yet unless it's the main character living well in her new life.
“No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.”
― Eleanor Roosevelt
Posts: 160 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: PA |
Keepcalm
♀ 36234
Member # 36234 | | Posted: 4:06 PM, August 11th (Saturday), 2012 | |
I am reading "A Rural Affair" by Catherine Alliott. In the book the husband is an ass, killed by accident and then it's found out he was having an affair. Kind of cute, not deep but somehow satisfying.
BS Me 57
WS Him 55
Married 30 yrs
DDay 1/28/2012
I have no idea what is going on
Posts: 196 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Virginia |
PippaPeach6
♀ 37523
Member # 37523 | | Posted: 1:20 PM, November 16th (Friday), 2012 | |
I read this book pre-A and loved it. A very cathartic book, and doesn't hurt that I love Brit lit! Great story for New Beginners ((((((hug))))) .I had no idea how close I would identify with this story later in my own life. . . I actually re-read it not that long ago, and knew that, push come to shove, I would be that strong woman  Thank God we're in happy R.
Us: 50ish, madhatters, married 20 odd yrs
TT: May 2009 'til June
DDay for both: June 17, 2009
Me: 2x, same person, 1991
Him: 1.5 year PA (EA?) 2007-2009
Reconciled
Honey Badger don't care. - Randall
Posts: 386 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Flyover chic |
Edie
♀ 26133
Member # 26133 | | Posted: 5:57 PM, November 16th (Friday), 2012 | |
Read it post A. The revenge is good.
Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 DDs 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) Feb 09 16 other OW confessed. OW17 tried her unedifying hardest until Aug 09. R'd.
Posts: 5207 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: UK |
Kajem
♀ 36134
Member # 36134 | | Posted: 8:31 AM, November 17th (Saturday), 2012 | |
I read it pre A, picked it up again post A.
I think it's still on my bookshelf as a keeper.
Let us know what you think of the ending.
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Posts: 5934 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida |
dmari
♀ 37215
Member # 37215 | | Posted: 12:41 AM, November 18th (Sunday), 2012 | |
I haven't read any fictions since my d'day. I think I'm ready to do some reading now. I'm so happy you posted this book. I'm going to pick up from my library tomorrow! Thank you for the suggestion! dmari
Me (BS): 43 Children: DD 19, DS 16
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."
Posts: 2421 | Registered: Oct 2012 |
luv2swim
♀ 13154
Member # 13154 | | Posted: 2:18 PM, November 25th (Sunday), 2012 | |
When I read this book I was a middle-aged woman hoping for some sort of karmic justice to strike my H and his OW. 
This book is gentle and even sweet, and it provided me the vision of future justice I so desired as I was negotiating divorce with my H. I do not remember it as being too triggery either ... which was a factor in my reading choices for a phase of my healing.
Me: BS
Him: NPD WS
Married 24 years
2 incredible kids
D day: 2006 ... he left to live with OW.
Divorced: 2009
WS + OW: Married and still together (as far as I know).
Posts: 383 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: US |
loserhusband
♀ 12734
Member # 12734 | | Posted: 5:46 PM, November 26th (Monday), 2012 | |
I think that I would love a book were the fucktard gets his in the end :)
ME BS 54
HIM WS 56
M 30 years
DD 9/20/06
Wow has it really been that long ago ;(
OP 26 year old co worker
Never make someone a priority who considers you an option
Keep the Faith, but Ration the Trust, It is better to be pissed off than pissed on
Posts: 1091 | Registered: Nov 2006 | From: east coast |
loserhusband
♀ 12734
Member # 12734 | | Posted: 5:46 PM, November 26th (Monday), 2012 | |
I think that I would love a book were the fucktard gets his in the end :)
ME BS 54
HIM WS 56
M 30 years
DD 9/20/06
Wow has it really been that long ago ;(
OP 26 year old co worker
Never make someone a priority who considers you an option
Keep the Faith, but Ration the Trust, It is better to be pissed off than pissed on
Posts: 1091 | Registered: Nov 2006 | From: east coast |
luv2swim
♀ 13154
Member # 13154 | | Posted: 1:57 AM, November 28th (Wednesday), 2012 | |
He does ... and if I remember correctly, to an extent so does the other women. Plus, the Middle-aged Women does so very well in the end. Rather a satisfying read.
Me: BS
Him: NPD WS
Married 24 years
2 incredible kids
D day: 2006 ... he left to live with OW.
Divorced: 2009
WS + OW: Married and still together (as far as I know).
Posts: 383 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: US |
Laura28
♀ 28997
Member # 28997 | | Posted: 5:16 AM, January 14th (Monday), 2013 | |
Hi
I haven't read the book but saw the movie.
I really liked it and would bet the author was a BS.
Christine Lahti is the star and she is fabulous!!!! Unfortunately it was a Telemovie and I haven't been able to buy it anywhere.
Highly recommend it!!!
Laura
Married 32yrs Me BW 58Yrs Him FWH 60yrs
OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted.
Dday May 28 2010.
OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years).
OW2 2002(8yrs PA).
OW3 2009(1Yr PA).
Others???? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck the goat"
Posts: 2766 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Australia |
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