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User Topic: Need a recommedation please...
carey
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Default  Posted: 9:35 PM, September 26th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hello, does anyone know of a book that I could recommend to a single woman, in her 40's, that likes to have "relationships" w/married men?

Thanks so much.


me(BW) 41
him (WH) 40
D-day 1/17/12
together for 22yrs, married 12 yrs.
2 children ages 10 & 5
You can close your eyes
to the things you don't
want to see. You can't close
your heart to the things you don't want to feel.

Posts: 540 | Registered: Jun 2012
meaniemouse
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Default  Posted: 11:06 PM, September 26th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hmmm . . . .I'm thinking a really long book--5 or 600 pages or more. Probably large print. So she can hit herself in the head with it until she comes to her senses.


Act as if what you do matters. It does. William James

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Take2
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Default  Posted: 11:49 PM, September 26th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Maybe start her off with an article before you build up to chapter books:

http://www.medicinenet.com/sexually_transmitted_diseases_stds_in_men/article.htm


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

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carey
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Default  Posted: 9:26 AM, September 27th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

meaniemouse, that is too funny!!


me(BW) 41
him (WH) 40
D-day 1/17/12
together for 22yrs, married 12 yrs.
2 children ages 10 & 5
You can close your eyes
to the things you don't
want to see. You can't close
your heart to the things you don't want to feel.

Posts: 540 | Registered: Jun 2012
carey
♀ 35829
Member # 35829
Default  Posted: 9:28 AM, September 27th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Take2~I'll send her this for sure!! Thanks!!


me(BW) 41
him (WH) 40
D-day 1/17/12
together for 22yrs, married 12 yrs.
2 children ages 10 & 5
You can close your eyes
to the things you don't
want to see. You can't close
your heart to the things you don't want to feel.

Posts: 540 | Registered: Jun 2012
carey
♀ 35829
Member # 35829
Default  Posted: 9:32 AM, September 27th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Would the popular book "Not Just Friends" be appropriate? I haven't read it, but, probably should, since I've discovered that my WH had several women that he claimed were "just friends."


me(BW) 41
him (WH) 40
D-day 1/17/12
together for 22yrs, married 12 yrs.
2 children ages 10 & 5
You can close your eyes
to the things you don't
want to see. You can't close
your heart to the things you don't want to feel.

Posts: 540 | Registered: Jun 2012
phmh
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Default  Posted: 9:07 PM, September 27th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He's Just Not That Into You addresses this.

Also, the website baggagereclaim.com is written by a former OW and there may be some info on there that could be helpful.


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny


Posts: 3538 | Registered: Dec 2011
carey
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Member # 35829
Default  Posted: 9:39 PM, September 27th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is that a book or a movie?


me(BW) 41
him (WH) 40
D-day 1/17/12
together for 22yrs, married 12 yrs.
2 children ages 10 & 5
You can close your eyes
to the things you don't
want to see. You can't close
your heart to the things you don't want to feel.

Posts: 540 | Registered: Jun 2012
CairnLover
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Default  Posted: 5:59 PM, October 5th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The baggage website is good.


Reconciling

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