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JanaGreen (original poster member #29341) posted at 7:34 PM on Wednesday, January 16th, 2013
The subject line of four emails in my spam folder.
Along with one titled:
Neglected and Lonely Housewives Looking for Love!
Ummm, no thanks. Target market FAIL. Motherfuckers.
RyeBread ( member #37437) posted at 7:37 PM on Wednesday, January 16th, 2013
Probably would have thrown my computer through the window if I got that. Baaaadd trigger for me.
Let him that would move the world first move himself. - Socrates
64fleet ( member #18710) posted at 7:37 PM on Wednesday, January 16th, 2013
It is no better when your fWW was once one of them. I did not open my email for nearly 2 yrs because of shit like that-spam filter won't catch it all.
karmahappens ( member #35846) posted at 7:38 PM on Wednesday, January 16th, 2013
I laugh when I get my mail lately...
Horny Seniors Hook-Up!
WTF? I am more offended that I am considered a senior!
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 7:38 PM on Wednesday, January 16th, 2013
UUUGGGHHHH and GGGGRRRRRR!!!!!
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 7:41 PM on Wednesday, January 16th, 2013
((((Jana)))) Disgusting. 
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 7:49 PM on Wednesday, January 16th, 2013
My STBX was a member of those websites, looking for married women to hook up with. I find myself wondering about every woman I now meet. Is this scout mom someone my STBX screwed? Did that teacher's aide suck his dick? Is the reason this checker at the store acting so oddly because she let him pee in her mouth and now she recognizes that I'm his wife?
Makes me sick.
[This message edited by Nature_Girl at 1:49 PM, January 16th (Wednesday)]
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
selkiescot ( member #23777) posted at 7:57 PM on Wednesday, January 16th, 2013
The truth shall set you free or reveal the name of the OW!
ME 57
WH 64
DDAYs TOO MANY
daughter 27
You give me gifts! I don't want your gifts I want the truth. That's the greatest gift.
JanaGreen (original poster member #29341) posted at 7:57 PM on Wednesday, January 16th, 2013
Guys, I'm sorry, I didn't mean to trigger anyone. I was trying to see if some pics I tried to email myself ended up in my spam folder and I was like . . . WTF? Is this shit everywhere?
I'm not very busy at work today, which is bad because it gives me too much time to ruminate over things best not ruminated about. 
Trying to distract myself and found that mess.
Tred ( member #34086) posted at 8:02 PM on Wednesday, January 16th, 2013
We live in a small town, pretty rural, and I'd get those "Lonely wives looking to fuck in yourlittletown tonight" spam messages too. I used to think how stupid these ads are, what a waste of marketing. Turns out I was the stupid one because my wife was making them money.
ETA: Jana, you didn't trigger me - my wife putting herself out on the open market for the types of guys who look for women on these sites trigger me whether or not someone makes a post about it. Every subject potentially can trigger someone, blaming the poster is transferring the blame. No one made me reply to your post - I wouldn't worry about it.
[This message edited by Tred at 2:11 PM, January 16th (Wednesday)]
Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)
forgivingnow ( member #33549) posted at 8:35 PM on Wednesday, January 16th, 2013
Can anyone explain how these spam emails get to your computers?
Me-BS 57
FWH-57
M 37yrs.
Dday 3-19-11, TT 10/2011, Full truth July 2013
Strength comes from within. You can't get it from someone or go somewhere to get it. It is already here, waiting to be used when you need it most. Believe in yours
MandoBando ( member #37308) posted at 8:42 PM on Wednesday, January 16th, 2013
I'm with RyeBread, I would have chucked the damn thing out the window.
Me: BS
Him: WS (longroadahead22)
DDay #1: 10/23/12
DDay #2: 11/7/12
DDay #3: 2/9/13
Kids: 2 boys, girl on the way
R, trying our best
StillGoing ( member #28571) posted at 8:51 PM on Wednesday, January 16th, 2013
Can anyone explain how these spam emails get to your computers?
The bulk of all email on the net is spam. When I say bulk I mean more than 75%.
If you want to see something really funny then hook up a Win98 or XP box directly to the internet with no firewall or NAT, just a public IP and leave it there over night. The hundreds of NETBIOS message popups are fucking astounding. Assuming it hasn't caught fire and opened a gate to some nether realm by then.
eta:
Sorry I meant windows messenger service popups, an archaic messaging system that uses netbios.
[This message edited by StillGoing at 2:53 PM, January 16th (Wednesday)]
JanaGreen (original poster member #29341) posted at 8:53 PM on Wednesday, January 16th, 2013
StillGoing ( member #28571) posted at 8:57 PM on Wednesday, January 16th, 2013
It's, uh. An old layer 4 api involved in networking.
eta:
It's a really old piece of computer networking software that let programs do stuff to each other on different computers.
eta again:
I'm just gonna go that way now, sorry. Carry on.
[This message edited by StillGoing at 3:00 PM, January 16th (Wednesday)]
MandoBando ( member #37308) posted at 9:22 PM on Wednesday, January 16th, 2013
Double Post
[This message edited by MandoBando at 3:22 PM, January 16th (Wednesday)]
Me: BS
Him: WS (longroadahead22)
DDay #1: 10/23/12
DDay #2: 11/7/12
DDay #3: 2/9/13
Kids: 2 boys, girl on the way
R, trying our best
osca ( member #35628) posted at 9:23 PM on Wednesday, January 16th, 2013
Can anyone explain how these spam emails get to your computers?
You should all switch to gmail
I get zero mail like that! Nor my fWH, nor my parents (who I set up with gmail), nor most of the people I know.
Seriously, switch today, it will bring back some sanity
Me: BS 32
Him: WS 36
Kids: 3 yr Son
Complication: Expats living abroad
Married: 03/2006, together since 2003
Dday: April 7th 2012, 6 months emotional, 3 months physical
OW: 35, his first gf, daughter of a prostitute (no really!) Apple >> Tree
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 9:47 PM on Wednesday, January 16th, 2013
I just vomitted in my mouth a little. Pee in her mouth???????
And he wonders why I want a divorce!
As for how that spam gets into your mailbox. Well, it's all well & good to say that everyone gets it, but I don't get it. I have several email addresses, some are more than twelve or thirteen years old. Heck, I think one is from 1997. I don't get sex spam to these email addys. I think it's because the computers I use to access these emails don't have cookies from sex websites or sex apps. One of STBX's email addys is almost identical to one of mine. It gets a hundred sex spam a day. What's the diff?? The computer he used/uses to access that email is one he uses to boink off to & troll for dates on Fuckbook and everywhere else.
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
britt91 ( member #37809) posted at 10:05 PM on Wednesday, January 16th, 2013
Ummm, no thanks. Target market FAIL. Motherfuckers.
I just spit water all over my desk.
For real though, I feel honest pain for BS's who were negatively impacted.. I just thought Jana's response was humorous.
Me: BW-22
Him: fWH-22
D-Day: 10/13/12
DS-3
Baby #2 due September 2, 2013!
Decided to R--Still new to it...
RyeBread ( member #37437) posted at 10:59 PM on Wednesday, January 16th, 2013
Guys, I'm sorry, I didn't mean to trigger anyone
Jana you didn't trigger me, no need to apologize. I was saying that when I see those messages in my SPAM folder it triggers me.
Let him that would move the world first move himself. - Socrates
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