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				    				 JamieMc (original poster  member #37776)		posted at 7:52 PM on Friday, March 15th, 2013	
			 
	Trying to find a good book/books for WH to read as well as books we might share or discuss. Backstory in profile but briefly WH cheated with sex workers, unprotected oral sex twice if Poly is accurate. I did have some concerns about a FB friendship as well at one time. Is not just friends a good book if we aren't dealing with an actual AP? Thanks Jamie 
 
			 			BS early 60’s Wh also early 60’s. I am Jamie, Mom to 3 great young adults. My WH and I have been together more than half of our lives and married 30+ years.. We are in MC & going to give R our best shot, hoping and praying for a better 2015!		
	 	 			 
				    				 JamieMc (original poster  member #37776)		posted at 6:45 AM on Wednesday, March 27th, 2013	
			 
	Anybody? Would this ? be better in a different forum? Thanks Jamie 
 
			 			BS early 60’s Wh also early 60’s. I am Jamie, Mom to 3 great young adults. My WH and I have been together more than half of our lives and married 30+ years.. We are in MC & going to give R our best shot, hoping and praying for a better 2015!		
	 	 			 
				    				SorrowBhindSmile ( member #38139)		posted at 8:02 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2013	
			 
	for me personally, these were some of the best reads... 
 
 
	Not Just Friends 
 
 
	After The Affair 
 
 
	I also found How Can I Forgive You helpful 
 
			 			Me: BW
Him: WH
OW: My former "dear friend"/neighbor
Married 20+
Kids: 3
D-Day 12/2012
Committed to R 7/8/2013
"Believe in yourself and all that you are. Know that there is something inside you that is greater than any obstacle"		
	 	 			 
				    				didiknow ( new member #39410)		posted at 8:17 AM on Thursday, June 13th, 2013	
			 
	After the Affair was the first one I read and it was pretty good but put a bit too much focus on the BS. 
 
 
	I am reading Not Just Friends now and it's phenomenal. Highly Recommended. 
 
			 			Me-BH (38)
Her-WW (27)
M Aug 29, 2010
D-day May 25, 2013
A #1 June 2012
A #2 Late 2012-May 2013
No matter what "new" information you find out, it's all just part of the same iceberg, hidden under the surface.		
	 	 
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