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User Topic: What really happens at G2Gs
BrokenRoad
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Cool  Posted: 8:23 PM, March 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks to everyone for making a Wayward feel comfortable so many times over.

[This message edited by BrokenRoad at 8:23 PM, March 22nd (Friday)]


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11235 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, March 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awww, you only seemed waylaid...


May your 2015 be more FUCK YEAH! than fuck this

Posts: 21887 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
BaxtersBFF
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Default  Posted: 9:54 PM, March 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Agreed, BR.


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6103 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
Clarrissa
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Default  Posted: 10:12 PM, March 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had that feeling before my first G2G in 2010. That the fact that I was a wayward would cause me to be... left out, I guess. But it was just tge opposite. I learned at that first one that the "title" of WS or BS didn't enter into it. It was fun getting to know the people behind the username and having fun.

And BR, I wish Cee and I could have made it. It would have been nice seeing you and WH5 again.


BH Cee64D - 50
FWW (me) - 51


All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.


Posts: 6058 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: A better place
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 11:10 PM, March 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"It is impossible to get a man to understand something if his livelihood depends on him not understanding." - Upton Sinclair

Posts: 23850 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
persevere
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Default  Posted: 11:13 PM, March 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My BF, who has no SI experience, attended with me, and was surprised to learn of the complete dynamics of the SI group. Baxter and I were able to help him understand the full grasp and how important we all are as a group, with our different initial roles, whether it be WS or BS. In the end, we all have the same goal, and that is what is important.


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44

DDay:2011
Status: D 2011

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


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leapyearbaby
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Default  Posted: 11:20 PM, March 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Exactly, Persevere. It was finally going to a couple g2gs that got my WH comfortable with SI.


me BS the Big 6-0!!
him WS 56
married 28 years
together 31
DD 6/10/08
ow #1,2 lta on and off since 1995
ow 3 ons summer 2005
2 D, mine from prior marriage, but he raised them
R'ing...probably not....but then again, maybe....


Posts: 1375 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Colorado
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 6:08 AM, March 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Truer words never spoken!

It is hard to express.

I feel 'different' after every g2g. So much love, heart and soul put out there by all.

I'm still on a high from Texas.

There is no place that LD and I can feel as comfortable in our everyday life than we do with SI people at a g2g, even the ones we are meeting for the first time.

(((SI people)))


Trust is earned when actions meet words. ---Chris Butler

Posts: 44132 | Registered: Sep 2007
persevere
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Default  Posted: 11:49 AM, March 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It really was a different feeling, like meeting old friends. Strong comfort level immediately.


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44

DDay:2011
Status: D 2011

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4970 | Registered: Mar 2011
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 2:05 PM, March 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am glad I was able to make it and meet people who get it.

Thanks.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 6456 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 7:20 PM, March 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11235 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
k94ever
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Default  Posted: 11:12 AM, March 24th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is really making me look forward to the MI g2g in October.

I'm at the point where I could use a little IRL support.

k9


BS: 57
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

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