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longroadahead22 posted 3/22/2013 22:19 PM

Tonight my wife said something that made me feel so little... "It's been 5 months tomorrow that I made you dump your girlfriend". Dear god how f*#ked up is that statement, from my W. damn I was so unhealthy and still am for the most part. Workin with IC/MC, working thru FOO issues, fighting thru depression, digging deep and rebuilding a better me. But that wouldn't have happened if 5 months ago my BS caught me in my A by finding ILY to the OW on my phone. Then TT the hell out of her for damn near 4 months! Main I've done just about everything wrong and yet she is still here. And each day is a blessing for me but torture for her! Sorry no real questions just shameful recap

BaxtersBFF posted 3/22/2013 22:23 PM

What was your response to her?

cinnamongurl posted 3/22/2013 22:27 PM

Yes, what did you say to her?
(BBF, you picked the thought right from my brain!)

longroadahead22 posted 3/23/2013 07:19 AM

That I was sorry I ever wondered away from ER an that I'm committed to fixing myself and by extension fixing our relationship. That I was willing to fight for us and that I here for her if she wants to talk more, which she didn't. She rolled over in bed and didn't say anything more, but I hugged her and tried to show that I was there for her

BaxtersBFF posted 3/23/2013 07:32 AM

My BW wanted me to fight for her. I can still picture how she looked when she said it. Fighting for her did not look how I thought it would look, but it did make a difference.

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