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isadora
♀ 29130
Member # 29130 |  Posted: 8:50 AM, March 23rd (Saturday), 2013 |     |
FWH and I were trying to squeeze in a quickie before he had to go to work.  The 2 year old was at his grandparents, the two girls were distracted with donuts or so we thought. the door was locked - but it failed and the 6 year old walked in on us. She started giggling and ran away. The she brings back the 4 year old and the lock failed again. So the 2 of them are standing in the door laughing at us. (we were under the covers, just in case in ca after the first fail - which FWH blamed on me for not locking the door).
As we dressed, we heard the 4 year old laughing - saying they were having sex. (she has said it before but she thinks is just kissing in bed).
So the girls are laughing at us. I don't think they really understand because they couldn't see really anything except that we had no clothes on.
I am not sure how to handle (I'm waffling between ignoring it unless they bring it up again or talking to them a little about what happened). I'm trying to head off the potentially more embarrassing moment of announcing it at the family dinner table in front of our parents, siblings, teachers, school friends. Well you get the picture.
Epic door lock fail! 
Me: BW Him: who cares
Married: 12 yrs
2 DDs and DSs all under 10
Who knows how many affairs at this point
Multiple D-Days
I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.
Posts: 4555 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Back home again in Indiana |
dlmos
♂ 36839
Member # 36839 | | Posted: 9:43 AM, March 23rd (Saturday), 2013 | |
I've got nothing to help you on this but that is hilarious!
BH (32)
DS - 7, DD - 6
Divorced
Posts: 461 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Fort Worth,Texas |
dameia
♀ 36072
Member # 36072 | | Posted: 9:45 AM, March 23rd (Saturday), 2013 | |
Me: BS
D-Day: 7/7/12
Trust is like paper. Once it's crumpled it can never be perfect again.
Posts: 1254 | Registered: Jul 2012 |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 11:27 AM, March 23rd (Saturday), 2013 | |
Congratulations! You've just completed the "future psychotherapy" quest in "Parenting 3 - Crap! Now they outnumber us!"
You can call me NIK
"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman
Posts: 27045 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
TrulyReconciled
♂ 3031
Member # 3031 | | Posted: 9:39 AM, March 25th (Monday), 2013 | |
Just get it out of the way and put it on Facebook already ...
 
"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."
Posts: 21752 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Hell and back, way back :o) |
Mama_of_3_Kids
♀ 26651
Member # 26651 | | Posted: 9:51 AM, March 25th (Monday), 2013 | |
This is why we have a, "knock before entering," rule It doesn't matter whose room it is, if the door is closed, you knock before entering!
Me: FBW/30 Him: FWH/34 The kidlets: DS14, DS10, and DD8 The hounds: Four Shih Tzu's
Finally, completely R'd
Clothed in strength and dignity, with nothing to fear, she smiles when she thinks about the future.~Proverbs 31:25
Posts: 11608 | Registered: Dec 2009 |
lieshurt
♀ 14003
Member # 14003 | | Posted: 10:17 AM, March 25th (Monday), 2013 | |
Time to get a new lock
A relationship without trust is like a car without gas. You can stay in it all you want, but it won't go anywhere.
Posts: 13950 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston |
simplydevastated
♀ 25001
Member # 25001 | | Posted: 10:17 AM, March 25th (Monday), 2013 | |
Oh, how embarrassing! Hopefully they don't mention it in school, I'd hate to have that brought up at a parent/teacher conference
Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)
Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell! |
HFSSC
♀ 33338
Member # 33338 | | Posted: 4:50 PM, March 25th (Monday), 2013 | |
Me, 48
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 18 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.
Posts: 2999 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina |
isadora
♀ 29130
Member # 29130 | | Posted: 5:30 AM, March 26th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
well it's been a few days without the girls bringing it up. But the two of them have memories like elephants. Although they did bring up the fact that we kiss eachother (which they find gross).
Me: BW Him: who cares
Married: 12 yrs
2 DDs and DSs all under 10
Who knows how many affairs at this point
Multiple D-Days
I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.
Posts: 4555 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Back home again in Indiana |
Myname
♂ 23138
Member # 23138 | | Posted: 7:24 AM, March 26th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Oh you know this is going to be announced during Easter dinner and it is the talk of school.
DD: 1-14-09 EA/PA OM #1
TT: 5-11&12-09
DD#2: 5-18-09 EA OM #2
5-31-09: Told me she hasn't loved me.
No kids
Me BH: 38
12-08-10: S
Posts: 3260 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Inside your computer. |
DragnHeart
♀ 32122
Member # 32122 | | Posted: 7:52 AM, March 26th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Wh and I have become experts in "doing it" in stealth mode. We share the bedroom with both kids so any adult activities had to be done once they were asleep and done quietly...
I agree with Mama. There should always be a "knock first" rule. In my parents house this was the case. Here, everyone walks in on everyone. This is especially frustrating when in the bathroom. The frame where the door handle would lock into was ripped off (when BIL slammed up against the locked door) so it doesn't even shut tightly. I haven't peed alone in four years...if its not the kids walking in its one of the dogs...
My BIL gf now wakes up my father in law each morning. Drives me nuts. She doesn't knock, just walks right in.
Dd (4) has woken up while we have been busy but I'm not sure she's ever noticed. So far she hasn't said anything 
Posts: 3991 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada |
SouthernGal
♀ 27315
Member # 27315 | | Posted: 8:23 AM, March 26th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
"Mom, could y'all keep it quiet in there when you're doing that? I'm right out here and can hear you."
Oh yeah ... been there.
While XWH and I were in R and enjoying a little HB we were apparently a little louder than I thought because suddenly there was a knock in the bedroom door and SG2 (13/14 at the time) says, "Hey I'm glad y'all are getting back together and having a good time, but could you keep it down? I can't hear my Pokemon game, k? Geesh ... grown ups."
Yup. Scarred her for life (or at least that's what she told her bestie).
BS (Me) XWH (him) M nearly 16 yrs
1 DD (teens)
D-day #1 12/09, #2 2/10
Divorced 10/6/10
Posts: 3862 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: The Deep (Fried) South |
Kajem
♀ 36134
Member # 36134 | | Posted: 8:51 AM, March 26th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
When my kids were preschoolers they all had trouble going back to sleep after they woke to use the bathroom. They would come into us. Someone gave us the great idea to make sleeping with us uncomfortable. So we got some sleeping bags and put them under the bed.
When they woke up they could come into our room and sleep in the bag on the floor.
One night XH and I were going at it hot and heavy.. I looked over the edge of the bed.. to see 2 wide awake eyes looking up at me.. and she waves!
Talk about a mood killer.
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Posts: 5907 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida |
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