Hi, hurtmywife27, welcome to SI. I am sorry for you and your wife, infidelity is a painful blow to a marriage, even when the WS is remorseful. You must be patient with your wife, a nuclear bomb has just been dropped on her life.
Please check out the Healing Library in the upper left hand corner. It is a great resourse for both wayward spouses and betrayed spouses.
Weekends are a bit slow, but there are some awesome members here who will help you through this process.
How do I get my BF back?
^^Showing her true remorse, being patient, and finding out what gave you the green light to do this.
200% commitment to the marriage.
Everything must be put on the back burner until your wife begins to feel safe again....understand this is a marathon, not a sprint, it will not take weeks or months but years.
It will be your consistent actions that show your devotion to her. Right now actions speak louder than words, in her eyes your words are meaningless.
It would be a good idea for her to seek counseling as well.