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jackie89 posted 3/26/2013 22:27 PM

So tonight I find out that OW is pregnant, apparently its her husband's!

She went back to her BS, in July, I believe her BS does not know full extent of affair. Thinks it was only EA, like she told him.

I have not told STBXH, about this latest development.

Should I? And does it really matter?

I don't really know how I feel about this? And why do I still care, as long as its not STBXH? I can still access his cell records, (yeah yeAh I know) and last contact was July 14, my DD#2!

beenthere2? posted 3/26/2013 22:29 PM

If you really believe it is over, stay NC and don't brind it up to WH. There is no need for him to know or care.

I can still access his cell records, (yeah yeAh I know)
Nothing to yeah, yeah about. I am three years out and I still check H's phone now and then.

gonnabe2016 posted 3/26/2013 22:44 PM

I don't see any point in telling him. Leave that door closed.

exhausted lady posted 3/27/2013 02:43 AM

Oh honey...the pregnant OW story is as old a dirt. I'll bet she "miscarries" soon...but I might be wrong.

If you're done, and you have no children with STBXH....it's his problem, NOT yours. I know it's hard not to snoop....but DO NOT get involved!

Truly, you have been laid off from the position of someone who should give a fuck about his problems. Let him deal with his messes. You go on about your merry way and try to ignore the trainwreck.

noprincess posted 3/27/2013 05:39 AM

Hi Jackie89,

I'm in agreement that if you believe your STBXH is still in NC with OW then let it go. Do not tell him.

As for a point made by beenthere2, I would make no apology for access to the phone records. Your STBXH lied to you for a LONG time, the OW was a friend. After how you've been brutalized its only natural to keep a wary eye.

As to why this matters to you...I think its only natural to have a curiosity about the OW, even if that chapter is closed...we all stop to watch a train wreck, it just that you're not on the train anymore!

jackie89 posted 3/27/2013 07:05 AM

Thank you so much for the advice.

Yes, I agree not saying a thing to STBXH.

NeverAgain2013 posted 3/27/2013 11:07 AM

Meh. I'm a bitch.

I'd probably tell my husband that the zoo had decided to breed her in order to propagate her species, so she's knocked up now.

But I'm funny like that.

jackie89 posted 3/27/2013 21:25 PM

NeverAgain, today, I was so tempted to text him that.

"Aww guess your Skank girlfriend has really moved on, she must be so in-love with her hubby again"

But, he would only say something stupid/mean to me and I would be the one hurting. I much prefer for him to find out on his own and, and me tell him then, I knew all along!

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