D Day: July 27, 2012
Day of first suspicion: 6/7/11
DD#2: November 2, 2012
Start digging but whatever you do do not let him know that you are. Don't confront him, try really hard to act like nothing is wrong, and go undercover.
If your gut is right, something will come to light soon. We are great detectives when the scent is in the air.
In the meantime, please make sure you BREATHE.
We are all here for you and there will be others along with sensible advice. Take heart sweetie, you are not alone, and if this turns out to be a false alarm, then you can talk to your H and find out what raised your hackles and put you in a state of alert.
Thoughts and love to you
I hope it's not true, but you have to find out for yourself...So you can have some peace.
What are you going to do then? That is the question.
eta: if you're able to act like everything is "normal" while you're digging, your chances of finding something are much better. How good an actress are you???
[This message edited by exhausted lady at 2:18 AM, March 30th (Saturday)]
God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to
change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.