its a brilliant song and came out at just the appropriate time for me. the first time heard it i pulled over and cried and cried, downloaded it immediately and played it until i could sing all the words.
I was doing the same thing - trying to figure out if we were broken or just bent.
the next time it came on the radio, i had learned and accepted i had no control over his heart and his actions, and i knew mine was just bent, and i will learn to love again - with someone else who has learned from the scars on his heart. :(