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User Topic: Just burst into tears
♀ 38336
Member # 38336
Default  Posted: 6:05 PM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just listened to new Pink/Nate Ruess song "Just Give Me a Reason". A beautiful song, but the below lyrics are what made me lose it:

No nothing is as bad as it seems
We'll come clean

Just give me a reason
Just a little bit's enough
Just a second we're not broken just bent
And we can learn to love again
I never stopped
You're still written in the scars on my heart
You're not broken just bent
And we can learn to love again

Trying to rebuild each day

Me - WW 41
Him - BH 41 (mpb1974)
2 Furrbabies - sweet cats

Met - 8/13/99
Started dating - 9/11/99
Moved in together - 3/03
Engaged - 6/5/09
Married - 8/21/10
D-Day - 1/24/13
Affair started 5/09

Posts: 779 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
♂ 38799
Member # 38799
Default  Posted: 7:19 PM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know the song well. everything TV, Radio, Songs, Commercials. Will get to you and what you did. I see my BS suffering and I know I am the that created that.

WH (me) 59
BS (her) 45
D day 3/7/2013
Married 26 together 28
2 adult sons 25 and 22................................. I Totally screwed up.

Posts: 66 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Toms River NJ
♀ 37637
Member # 37637
Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes powerful song

WW(me) 41
BH 50 (5454real)
Married 10 years
Currently in R and plan to stay there and succeed
DD 21, DS 19, SS 22, DS 8, DGS 2

Posts: 62 | Registered: Nov 2012
♀ 38341
Member # 38341
Default  Posted: 9:27 PM, March 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


It is heart wrenching. Hang in there!

Just call me Heart. :)
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything" ~Mark Twain

Posts: 379 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: St. Louis
♀ 38787
Member # 38787
Default  Posted: 6:53 AM, March 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As bw ....I down loaded this song the other night and played it over 20 times in a row and tortured myself. Just trying to find out as the songs says are we broken or just bent.

There a lot of songs that will set off triggers.

Bw (me) 47
WH (him) 59
D day 3/7/2013
Married 26 together 28
2 adult sons 25 and 22

Posts: 167 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: nj
♂ 38561
Member # 38561
Default  Posted: 9:24 AM, March 30th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I sent this song to my WGF when she was in the ILYBINILWY phase and asked for "time apart" because she was having an A. I can't listen to it anymore. It's too painful. Amazing song none-the-less.

ME - A new person
HER - A waining memory
DDay - 2/22/2013
2-3 month EA/PA
Together for 6 years, ready to start my life . . .

"I can fill the flask up, but can't get past us
I'm in the storm, staying strong, but can't get back

Posts: 177 | Registered: Feb 2013
♀ 38692
Member # 38692
Default  Posted: 4:07 PM, March 31st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

its a brilliant song and came out at just the appropriate time for me. the first time heard it i pulled over and cried and cried, downloaded it immediately and played it until i could sing all the words.

I was doing the same thing - trying to figure out if we were broken or just bent.

the next time it came on the radio, i had learned and accepted i had no control over his heart and his actions, and i knew mine was just bent, and i will learn to love again - with someone else who has learned from the scars on his heart. :(

When he's your Romeo,
and you're not his Juliet,
it means you are Rosaline
- and you survive the play.

Posts: 202 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: UK
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