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Koswe posted 3/28/2013 15:12 PM

My husband left the country about two years ago to Australia for work and barely 6 months of him leaving he had fathered a child. I just found out Agee days ago that the said child is 8 months old and the mother is my friend. I have forgiven him but I am having trouble getting over the pain of first the mother being my friend and secondly for him waiting this long to tell me! Please help

callmecrazy posted 3/28/2013 15:48 PM

You are a very forgiving woman and your H is very lucky.

Has he refused to answer that question for you? Was he scared to death of dealing the the shame or losing you?? Im assuming since you have forgiven him he was remorseful to some degree, but maybe MC or IC???

Koswe posted 3/28/2013 16:00 PM

@ callmecrazy; he was very remorseful and not only that I am a Christian woman and if I don't forgive him then I will give home too much power. I have to find a balance and I know it will take a while for me to heal.

Jospehine85 posted 3/28/2013 16:12 PM

Koswe there is a thread in the I Can Relate Forum for Betrayed Spouses dealing with Other Child.

I think those good people can give you some excellent advice.

Koswe posted 3/28/2013 16:15 PM

@ josephine85 thankyou

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