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Topic: Cautious hope

IsItMe2013
♀ 38115
Member # 38115

Posted: 6:27 PM, March 28th (Thursday), 2013

WH and I went to counseling today, which is nothing new. But he is currently at a Sex Addicts Anon meeting which IS new. Anyone have experience with this? I want to have hope for my marriage but experience tells me not to.

Me: 34
WH: 37
Married 10 yrs
2 kids: 4yo and 6mo
Multiple OEAs in past
Had A while I was pregnant
DDay 1-12-13
Not sure how to forgive or reconcile

Posts: 4 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Indianapolis, IN

Missymomma
♀ 36988
Member # 36988

Posted: 8:09 PM, March 28th (Thursday), 2013

Yes, my SAWH goes to SA. I go to CODA and COSA. Do you attend any meetings? If not, I highly suggest it. Is he seeing a CSAT? My SAWH sees one, I have one of my own and we have one for marital therapy. There is hope but cautious is the essential element in that. My SAWH hasn't acted out in over a year but is still not that far into true recovery. There are plenty of men around him that have a strong recovery, so I hope he will get there. Not waiting on him and attending to my own life and recovery.

DDay - 6/15/11
R started - 7/1/11
False Discl- 9/27/12
Real Discl - 2/12/13
Poly - 3/1/13 Pass!
Me - BS (46)
WH - 52 (SA, NA, WA)
Kids: 2 littles and 1 grown
The road to recovery is long and hard. Some days I am up for it and others not!

Posts: 1084 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Texas

Jrazz
♀ 31349
Member # 31349

Posted: 8:22 PM, March 28th (Thursday), 2013

We have a lot of members who share their experience with their WSA in our I Can Relate Forum...

Spouses/Partners of Sex Addicts

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=478056

You may find a lot of empathy and support in there with people who have been through something similar.

"We must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope." - Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

Me: BW 35
Crazz: WH 33
Daughter: 4.5 Going on 16

Posts: 19062 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California

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