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User Topic: Cautious hope
♀ 38115
Member # 38115
Default  Posted: 6:27 PM, March 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WH and I went to counseling today, which is nothing new. But he is currently at a Sex Addicts Anon meeting which IS new. Anyone have experience with this? I want to have hope for my marriage but experience tells me not to.

Me: 34
WH: 37
Married 10 yrs
2 kids: 4yo and 6mo
Multiple OEAs in past
Had A while I was pregnant
DDay 1-12-13
Not sure how to forgive or reconcile

Posts: 4 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Indianapolis, IN
♀ 36988
Member # 36988
Default  Posted: 8:09 PM, March 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, my SAWH goes to SA. I go to CODA and COSA. Do you attend any meetings? If not, I highly suggest it. Is he seeing a CSAT? My SAWH sees one, I have one of my own and we have one for marital therapy. There is hope but cautious is the essential element in that. My SAWH hasn't acted out in over a year but is still not that far into true recovery. There are plenty of men around him that have a strong recovery, so I hope he will get there. Not waiting on him and attending to my own life and recovery.

DDay - 6/15/11
R started - 7/1/11
False Discl- 9/27/12
Real Discl - 2/12/13
Poly - 3/1/13 Pass!
Me - BS (46)
WH - 52 (SA, NA, WA)
Kids: 2 littles and 1 grown
The road to recovery is long and hard. Some days I am up for it and others not!

Posts: 1084 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Texas
♀ 31349
Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 8:22 PM, March 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We have a lot of members who share their experience with their WSA in our I Can Relate Forum...

Spouses/Partners of Sex Addicts

You may find a lot of empathy and support in there with people who have been through something similar.

"The trouble ain't that there is too many fools, but that the lightning ain't distributed right." -Mark Twain

Posts: 21670 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
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