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User Topic: Amazing, what a few cupcakes will do...
Jrazz
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Happy  Posted: 10:59 PM, April 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Neighbor's front porch this morning: Tupperware container with chocolate-covered-strawberry cupcakes and "Happy Easter" note from the Razzes.

My front porch 6 hours later: First edition signed copy of neighbor's recently released NYTimes bestselling book.


(I'd tell you which book but then you'd google the author, find out where I live, and show up demanding cupcakes.)


Not a bad trade, I'd say.

[This message edited by Jrazz at 11:00 PM, April 1st (Monday)]


"Welcome the rawness of vulnerability as an opportunity to open." - Pema Chodron

Me: BW 35
Crazz: WH 33
Daughter: 4.5 Going on 16


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BaxtersBFF
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Default  Posted: 11:04 PM, April 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's awesome!


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

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Myname
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Default  Posted: 11:45 PM, April 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I want to be your neighbor. I like cupcakes.


DD: 1-14-09 EA/PA OM #1
TT: 5-11&12-09
DD#2: 5-18-09 EA OM #2
5-31-09: Told me she hasn't loved me.
No kids
Me BH: 38
12-08-10: S

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woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 11:57 PM, April 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome! Books and cupcakes are two of my favorite things.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD16 and DS19
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:34 AM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a neighborly neighborhood! I think those are an endangered breed.


You can call me NIK

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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 7:37 AM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have been known to leave cupcakes on my neighbor's doorstep. (whistles "wont you be my neighbor")....


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{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 7 & 12
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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:39 AM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(whistles back "YES!")


You can call me NIK

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Lucky2HaveMe
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Default  Posted: 9:01 AM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(I'd tell you which book but then you'd google the author, find out where I live, and show up demanding cupcakes.)

Sounds like a g2g in the making!


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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 9:17 AM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't need to show up where you live. I can demand from here.

I wanna cupcake. Now!!!


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 10:27 AM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is it totally codependent that my brain started racing for how to ship cupcakes to Myname and Ama?


"Welcome the rawness of vulnerability as an opportunity to open." - Pema Chodron

Me: BW 35
Crazz: WH 33
Daughter: 4.5 Going on 16


Posts: 18703 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
KBeguile
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Default  Posted: 10:27 AM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't need to show up where you live. I can demand from here.

I wanna cupcake. Now!!!

Amazonia beat me to it, but I was thinking the same thing.


Me: fWS 32
Her: BS 35 (HeartInADustpan)
DS: 4yo
M: 7 years
DDays: 2012/11/14, 2013/02/05, 2013/03/09
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"Everything that happens now is happening 'now.'"
"What happened to 'then'?"
"We passed 'then.'"

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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 10:34 AM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is it totally codependent that my brain started racing for how to ship cupcakes to Myname and Ama?

No, that's just being a good guide.

I'll PM you my address.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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WakingFromADream
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Default  Posted: 11:08 AM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So... New version of card exchange but instead you send Jrazz your address for cupcakes?!?? Awesome, I'm in.


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Default  Posted: 11:13 AM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Books!! Cupcakes!! Heaven!!

I wanna be your neighbor, too!

Our neighborhood's claim to fame is that our neighbor's wife is a **** for a major league team. No bestselling books or razz cupcakes involved. . .


Us: 50ish, madhatters, married 20 odd yrs
TT: May 2009 'til June
DDay for both: June 17, 2009
Me: 2x, same person, 1991
Him: 1.5 year PA (EA?) 2007-2009
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itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 11:26 AM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm cupcakes.

:drool:


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KBeguile
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Default  Posted: 11:50 AM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No fair. Jrazz isn't accepting PMs for cupcake addresses.


Me: fWS 32
Her: BS 35 (HeartInADustpan)
DS: 4yo
M: 7 years
DDays: 2012/11/14, 2013/02/05, 2013/03/09
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"Everything that happens now is happening 'now.'"
"What happened to 'then'?"
"We passed 'then.'"

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 12:11 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for inadvertently pointing out that my PM Inbox is full. AGAIN. I thought things were oddly tumbleweeds in there.....

[This message edited by Jrazz at 12:14 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday)]


"Welcome the rawness of vulnerability as an opportunity to open." - Pema Chodron

Me: BW 35
Crazz: WH 33
Daughter: 4.5 Going on 16


Posts: 18703 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
persevere
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Default  Posted: 12:16 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a great idea Jrazz! I feel like a horrible neighbor now.


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 12:17 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, and there's only one left for now, so y'all are going to have to draw straws...


"Welcome the rawness of vulnerability as an opportunity to open." - Pema Chodron

Me: BW 35
Crazz: WH 33
Daughter: 4.5 Going on 16


Posts: 18703 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 12:19 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I feel like a horrible neighbor now.

OMG please don't! We lived in our condo in the South Bay for 7 years and NEVER interacted with our neighbors... not on purpose, it just didn't happen.

I'm just in the "country" now, and I get all domestic sometimes.


"Welcome the rawness of vulnerability as an opportunity to open." - Pema Chodron

Me: BW 35
Crazz: WH 33
Daughter: 4.5 Going on 16


Posts: 18703 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
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