Any tips on moving forward and ditching this anger? I can't stand myself today!
Thank you Survivor, I was able to meet my goal of packing just TWO boxes. Now I am going to do a few more, just because I can. I really believe in new beginnings.
I know it's tough and moving is stressful even under the best conditions! As Survivor said, it's one less thing that tied you to the X. I found that my true healing began once the divorce was final, house was sold, car titles were transferred, etc. In other words, once everything truly had been severed and I could move on as a single entity. You'll get there. Know that this is temporary!
Married: 11 years, no kids
Character is destiny
Leaving the house is the hardest first step, and the fact that he's not helping makes it tougher.
There will be peace on the other side though. And wine...
When you get in your new place invite some friends over for an impromptu party. It will be all your own place and own friends. Leave those bad memories behind.
I wish I could help you pack. Here is some cyber help coming your way.
Truth is like surgery, it hurts but heals. A Lie is like a painkiller. It gives instant relief but has side effects forever.