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User Topic: wise words for dating NBs
♀ 30341
Member # 30341
Default  Posted: 2:35 PM, April 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wisdom is everywhere. I found this:
I'm not seeking a relationship in order to have a sense of self-worth, validation or as the means to achieve happiness. I don't believe those can truly be rooted in your relationship with another person anyway
on a OLD profile about a year ago. I liked it so much I copied it and put it on my fridge but didn't write down where I found it. I look at it often when I am feeling "needy" to remind me of the truth that I am already enough.

Today, while looking at profiles I had already looked at (it happens, I've been OLD a long time now :) I read the words again. I sent an email to the man who wrote them to say thank you and to let him know that his words touched another human being.
I was afraid it might seem creepy, but he said he thought it was a nice compliment.

His quote is now attributed to his on line profile name.

DDay 11/17/2010 BW:53

Posts: 3557 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
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Member # 35695
Default  Posted: 5:52 PM, April 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wise words indeed

Me:BW 46, Him:WH 50
two kids DD14 and DS17
Married 26 years
OW 28, crew member (he was the ships captain)
"People are formed by their actions, not their ideals" unknown

Posts: 491 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Australia
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