So I feel like I screwed it all up and I want to make new vows to him and never break them. We are happy now and life is going so good. I want him to know that I am all in completely and I feel like this will be one way I can show him.
I guess what I am asking is has anyone renewed their vows since D-Day. When did you feel it was right to do? How long after D-Day did you do it?
I just want some insight. Thanks.
I guess you can say we didn't 'officially' renew them, but we did it for us, in our eyes.
Two years after d-day we went back to the island where we honeymooned, went to a quiet spot on the beach at sunset, spoke words to each other that we felt we wanted to share in that moment, toasted our marriage with Red Stripe beer in champagne glasses, and watched the sunset.
I guess you could say this was our official 'vow renewal'. For us, it was a rededication to each other and our future together.
Me - WW 41 Him - BH 41 (mpb1974) 2 Furrbabies - sweet cats
Met - 8/13/99 Started dating - 9/11/99 Moved in together - 3/03 Engaged - 6/5/09 Married - 8/21/10 D-Day - 1/24/13 Affair started 5/09
We spoke the new promises we wanted to make to each other this past Oct. on our 25th anniv. with our kids standing around us.
We had also melted our rings down, and also melted my grandparents rings in with it to make us new rings. We exchanged those new rings when we spoke the new promises we made to each other.
It felt like we really understood finally what we were promising to each other. Much more than when we were 19.
I think there are pics of it down in the picture thread.
If he didn't honor them the first time, what is the point in taking them again?
This is where I am right now and I hope it will change bc he wants to do this.
AN and TG...that is seriously so sweet. Where is the love emoticon?? <3
And...there's a pictures thread?!?? Where is that at?
