I purposed to make plans that would create great memories with my wife right from the beginning.
I order flowers, usually roses and have them arranged nicely from the florist.
I make reservations at a nice restaurant and make plans to stay for desert.
The desert time is my favorite. I order one item and we share.... Here's the catch, you can only have a bite when the other one gives you a bite. It makes for smiles and laughs.
I also like to find a nice place to go for a walk, where we can relax and hold hands, usually a park or a mall if the weather is bad.
I went online and ordered some beautiful rocks that are engraved with sayings on them, that speak just to her.
you can find them here - www.stonedecorative.com
My goal is always to help my wife re-claim what is HERS. Our marriage and our celebration of that belongs to HER alone and cannot be owned by anyone else.
I have purposed to let her know how special she is by doing special things that creat NEW and WONDERFUL memories.
Wishing you well....
[This message edited by Card at 11:32 AM, April 9th (Tuesday)]
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