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User Topic: Will 5 love languages offer more?
NoraLee
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Default  Posted: 9:51 PM, April 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My H and I took the online quiz to determine our live languages. It has been wonderful for him to show love the way I perceive it (touch) and to give it the way he values it (acts of service). Will we get more from buying and reading the book?


Me - BW - 44
Him - FWH - 42
Married 16 years
D day - 1/2 truth - July 2012
Full disclosure - August 2012
EA with skanky waitress coworker
3 kids - 14, 16, 21
In R

Posts: 791 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Canada
LeftBehind08
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Default  Posted: 4:36 PM, April 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I thought it gave a bit more background and examples of the 5 areas. It is a quick and easy read. If you are not religious, you can skip big parts where he gets a bit 'preachy'. I used it as a tool, but far from an all inclusive how to save a marriage book.

I would suggest getting it from the library or used.

PS - Look at Gottman books too. I found those more helpful for my relationships.


Sometimes it's lonely, Sometimes it's only me & the shadows that fill this room...
But it's a great day to be alive & the sun still shines when I close my eyes ~Travis Tritt

Posts: 84 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Washington
NoraLee
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Default  Posted: 4:58 PM, April 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Amazing how easily I forget the library!! Great suggestion...thank you!


Me - BW - 44
Him - FWH - 42
Married 16 years
D day - 1/2 truth - July 2012
Full disclosure - August 2012
EA with skanky waitress coworker
3 kids - 14, 16, 21
In R

Posts: 791 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Canada
Lucky2HaveMe
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Member # 13333
Default  Posted: 6:01 PM, April 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would suggest getting it from the library or used.

My copy is all highlighted and stuff. The library would have frowned upon my returning a book like that!


Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.

Posts: 6732 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: WNY
Undefinabl3
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Default  Posted: 10:18 AM, April 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He also has a 5 languages of apology which I found helpful as well.


Me: 31 MH
Him: 37 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit
Phone Find 11/21/14 - I can't even right now.

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