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Survivor3512 posted 4/8/2013 20:22 PM

Ok. So, my x is considering taking a job in another town for the next school year. Although, it will make things harder logistically, overall I think this is for the best. We live in a small town and his affair was/is with his assistant principal. It's all everyone talks about. It's all over the local Internet forums and I have gotten tons of anonymous emails trying to get me to "out" his affair. I really feel like all of the drama would die off if he leaves the system. Plus, he won't be in my town anymore. The distance will be nice. I think it will be the best thing for me and my boys. So, please if you can spare prayers and PV's, please say a few that he will in fact leave. He has to decide by the 15th. Thanks!!!

exhausted lady posted 4/9/2013 00:06 AM

(((Survivor)))

I truly hope he moves away. I have a feeling it might make your life a lot easier, in spite of some logistical things. Small towns can be vicious in the gossip department, and that's hard to deal with.

Bluebird26 posted 4/9/2013 05:30 AM

I hope he moves as you need to be able to move on with your life and constant reminders are hard.

I was so happy when my xwh & ow moved out of my area, it made NC so much easier and took the pressure off even when I went anywhere as I was always scared I would run into them. I felt like a prisoner in my own home.

Survivor3512 posted 4/15/2013 21:21 PM

Praise The Lord! He has decided to take the new job. I'm so relieved I could cry. It won't start until July, but the end is now in sight. Keeping my fingers crossed that nothing changes between now and then!

devistatedmom posted 4/15/2013 21:35 PM

I'm glad it worked out Survivor. May it be a move that makes things calmer for all of you.

cayc posted 4/15/2013 21:46 PM

Glad to hear!

Happydays posted 4/15/2013 23:24 PM

Congratulations! Enjoy the extra space.