BBF-turned-BH: 28 (Me)
BH here. I hope you dont mind me posting.
WW was cheating with a 'good' friend of mine. I never called him or thought of him as 'best friend'. However, WW was convinced he is my best friend. And he also mentioned multiple times that I am his best friend. I guess both of them thought that the role of a best friend involves screwing the best friend's wife..
She constantly urged me to talk to him about problems in our relationship. I just never considered him close and hence never spoke to him, except once when he spoke to me about my relationship. How twisted is that on the part of both the POS1 and WW.
Guess I am rambling. The point is that the thought processes of both the APs at the time of the A are pretty fucked up. To a rational mind, it will just not seem right no matter whatever you say. In fact, I think once the WS is out of the fog, they will also have a hard time understanding their behaviour during the A.
Yup. There is absolutely nothing that will justify or satisfy your BS or the APBS. No reason, except the broken-ness and selfishness of 2 people works for me.
[This message edited by CrappyLife at 10:20 AM, April 9th (Tuesday)]
WGF-turned-WW: 28 (EmotionalFool)
POS1: a 'friend'? WW believed it was my 'best friend'!
POS2: her senior at work!
Together - 6 years
Married - 1.5 years
Don't know where we are headed..