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MichelleRenee posted 4/9/2013 10:04 AM

Since D-day he has been staying at a friend's during the week and I leave on weekends. Well today he is saying he can no longer stay there and he wants me to get out of the house now. I do plan to give him the house (multiple reasons) but I do not plan to leave until my 16 yr old finishes his 10th grade year at the end of May. Why the hell should I yank a kid out of school at the end of the year? He has an IEP, social anxiety, aspergers, and major depression. He is already going through this divorce turmoil and has to change schools when we move. And this STBX a-hole wants me to take him out now with less than 2 months left. I cannot stand this man. Funny how less than 3 weeks ago we were "happily" married. How can he even pretend to care about my son when he is trying to force us out?

lonelylost posted 4/9/2013 11:55 AM

FTG. Why should your son suffer because of jerk face. How selfish he is!!!!

My son suffers with depression, anxiety, and is in IEP too, I know what you are going through. It is hard enough just being a teen, but when you have to struggle with more, it's debilitating. I try my best to help him but sometimes I can't fix things.

And it doesn't help when the Xwh is a turd! Do they ever think about anyone but themselves. No, I guess.

lonelylost posted 4/9/2013 11:56 AM

Stay strong....you're a good mom! Don't let him get the house!!!!

Kajem posted 4/9/2013 12:13 PM

I think it's time to lawyer up.. and let you lawyer file the paperwork that says you stay until the end of the school year.

Anticipate a lot of new lows as long as he is suffering from cranial-rectal inversion.

Good luck,

K

Happydays posted 4/9/2013 12:22 PM

Ask him to give it in writing. Probably that will stop him for a while.

Nature_Girl posted 4/9/2013 13:06 PM

"That's nice, Dear" is how you reply. And then go on about your business fully ignoring him. You don't even owe him the courtesy of a reply.

realitybites posted 4/9/2013 13:50 PM

You just say no. Period.

Let him dance around and figure it out.

devistatedmom posted 4/9/2013 14:55 PM

I wouldn't leave this weekend if I were you. He may lock you out. Talk to a lawyer, before the weekend. CYA

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