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User Topic: What are you talking about????
Notgwen
♀ 38838
Member # 38838
Default  Posted: 9:06 PM, April 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nothing better than the "what are you talking about" response when I confronted him about his text message usage going from 427 to 1049 in the month I found out.
Grrrrrrrr....so fucking angry!!!!!!!


Me: 44
WH: 50
D day 03.20.13
Married 25 years.
4 children; 6 between us

Posts: 32 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Pa
hopefulmother
♀ 38790
Member # 38790
Default  Posted: 9:45 PM, April 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, sounds familiar. My husbands jumped up to 3,000. Of which 1,200 was just to the parasite. Duh...do they really think we wouldn't notice. No-they just didn't give a shit, because they were getting what they wanted.


Me-BW 39
WH-39
D-day 9-4-12
Major TT 8-14
Friends for 20yrs dating since 2000
Married 10yrs with 2 toddlers
My wedding band is a symbol of hope, forgiveness, love, and grace.

Posts: 953 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: PA
hailstormer
♀ 35873
Member # 35873
Default  Posted: 10:11 PM, April 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He has entered the "FOGGGGGGG" and trying to make you believe his nonsense
Next he will tell you it's just a "Friend"
Don't believe that one either!
Time to become the detective and find out the truth cause everything that comes out of their mouth is BS!!!
Good Luck
Keep posting here for support and suggestions.


me(BS)-55
him(WS)-53
together 21 years
1st D-Day 4-19-10
2nd D-Day 5-3-12
married 19 years
2 kids 13-twins
Unfortunately...divorcing

Posts: 122 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Florida
gonnabe2016
♀ 34823
Member # 34823
Default  Posted: 10:33 PM, April 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LOL. I can't remember if it was during False R or the summer before that, but one month I opened the phone bill I said to WH "dude, there's a lot of texts on here....almost as much as your teenage son." (we had a plan that only gave a total # and not a detailed summary).

His response? "I text a lot."
Well no shit. But I didn't challenge him because there were kids around and then I forgot to bring it up again....but I'll never forget that response. Ever.

He only texts a lot when he's got a little somethin'/somethin' on the side. A lesson that I was, unfortunately, WAY behind the learning curve on....


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 8252 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
SoyLatte
♀ 37634
Member # 37634
Default  Posted: 3:15 AM, April 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Duh...do they really think we wouldn't notice. No-they just didn't give a shit, because they were getting what they wanted.

Our bill was $1800 for 3 months! And I pay the bills! Unbelievable...


Me: BS, 50
Him: WH, 50, serial cheater and compulsive liar, possible SA and NPD
Married 17 years, together 26
3 kids: 10, 13, and 15
Was afraid to confront while overseas, now home safely and can decide next step

Posts: 251 | Registered: Nov 2012
Topic Posts: 5

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