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turned123 (original poster member #33663) posted at 11:20 PM on Wednesday, April 17th, 2013
I am soo lucky!! I have three beautiful children inside and out, my relationship with them has never been stronger! I have family who love me unconditionally! God has seemed it fit to bless me every day, I have a wonderful home I paid off
and friends that think the world of me! And then there are the people here on SI that listen, encourage, put up with and support me daily! In my darkest days never could I have known how many truly wonderful people there are in the world. Yes! I have seen my share of difficulty. Yes! I have been in pain (recently) and yes! I will survive
ETA I still can't type
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me BS 48
her WW 45
married 15 years
divorced
3 wonderful but hurt kids
permanentpain ( member #38312) posted at 1:49 AM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013
Your post made me smile and think that the new beginning may start out painful due to the circumstances, but in reality we should be happy and grateful about the things that we do have. The reality is that there are others worse off than I, so every day is an opportunity to truly enjoy and appreciate the things I have. This post was beautiful and made me realize that the things you mention are the ones that truly matter
Me: 32 y/o, student and mom of two of the best kids in the world
Him: 33 y/o scumbag
Divorcing
Feels good to start laughing and feeling better again...
turned123 (original poster member #33663) posted at 1:54 AM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013
Perma Exactly!
me BS 48
her WW 45
married 15 years
divorced
3 wonderful but hurt kids
gogirl ( member #26870) posted at 2:41 AM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013
Great post...I needed this today. Thanks!!
It's never too late to live happily ever after.
turned123 (original poster member #33663) posted at 8:54 AM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013
Glad to be back! Gogirl
You're welcome!
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me BS 48
her WW 45
married 15 years
divorced
3 wonderful but hurt kids
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 12:24 PM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013
Ah, there's that sunshine! Bask in it honey. Let it warm you to your core.
((turned123))
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
turned123 (original poster member #33663) posted at 12:56 PM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013
Phew!! Made it through another ride
me BS 48
her WW 45
married 15 years
divorced
3 wonderful but hurt kids
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 1:46 PM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
k94ever ( member #11176) posted at 2:18 PM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013
"Fulfillment comes from within."
Youze got it........
k9
BS:61
WS: 53
Betrayed: 24 years
Affairs: 15 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.
turned123 (original poster member #33663) posted at 3:28 PM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013
K94 I still have work to do but boy sometimes you lose sight of the forest through the trees ya know?
me BS 48
her WW 45
married 15 years
divorced
3 wonderful but hurt kids
Survivor3512 ( member #37946) posted at 5:21 PM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013
What a great post! You are absolutely right- I, too, have so much to be thankful for. This is a good reminder to keep practicing gratitude.
Me (BS)- 36
Divorced
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Just keep swimming, just keep swimming- Dorie
Survivor3512 ( member #37946) posted at 5:23 PM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013
Damned rollercoaster. I might start shouting "weeeeeeee" when I feel a dip coming.
^^^^^^^ Lol, SBB! You got that right!
Me (BS)- 36
Divorced
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Just keep swimming, just keep swimming- Dorie
k94ever ( member #11176) posted at 8:48 PM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013
Be thankful for the trees also.
It's a decision you make to be content with yourself and your world.
"Be content with what you have and who you are and you cannot be harmed." Lao Tzu
k9
BS:61
WS: 53
Betrayed: 24 years
Affairs: 15 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.
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