My WH has two elderly parents who have been quite ill. He drove six hours to visit them and handle some necessities. According to him, he got bored, called OW up, and screwed her on his parents couch. Pissed is one word that I could use, but it would be a gross understatement.
Come to find out, he has been texting her, telling her that he loved her, that he was going to divorce me in January, and they were going to spend their lives together. I didn't find this out from him. I found it out for OW.
She feels sooo guilty. She has been texting me to check on me and make sure that I am alright. What a bitch. WH went NC, but she still wants to be friends, despite being told in no uncertain terms to have no contact.
Does anyone else believe that she is contacting me to see if we are done so she can pounce? Personally, I believe she is a backstabbing bitch who knowingly slept with a married man and is waiting for her opportunity. WH is even more responsible, but I am so used to it that I can't help to think that they deserve each other. He is on here as Joker317 if you want to read his story on the Wayward side.
Opinions? I sure could use a few.
[This message edited by NoraLee at 9:51 PM, April 17th (Wednesday)]
You've got bigger fish to fry with your WH than this OW.
Block her on your phone, on your email, on your FB, on his phone, email, and FB.
Deal with your WH's problems. He's got some big ones.
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
Im so sorry you have to go through all of this. It is not fair.
I just don't get how some people can sleep with themselves at night. She is doing more blame shifting to ease her twisted soul than WH has. But she literally does not matter.
I just don't know if I will ever look at WH the same way again. I want to. I want things to be okay, but when he tries to show affection, I get these stupid movies in my head of hm screwing. Does that ever go away?
If I were you I would change my number and look at getting an order of protection if you continue to be bothered. OW is merely a distraction from the larger issue of your H. I'm so sorry you are going through this yet again.
By the way, "She Who Must Not Be Named..." what's up with that?? Has he not told you who she is?!? Good grief.
edited: misplaced comma, as if I didn't have enough problems!
And yes, my opinion is also that she is fishing and trying to worm her way into your lives anywhichway she can.
[This message edited by Lyonesse at 11:02 AM, April 18th (Thursday)]
(Thanks PPGA )
It's kinda gross but hilarious and really works with those horrible sex flicks that come up when your WH makes his moves on you.
I don't like to post it outright but if you like, PM me and I will shoot it to you.
I hate mind movies. Mr. Happy and I are trying to R. The thought of Whorestein and him...UGH! It used to creep me out when we made love! But this youtube video really does the trick.
The best think was when I showed him the video and told him what I thought about it. Now he cannot think of his nasty tryst with the ho-worker without throwing up a bit in his mouth....
Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
Sounds like a really fun board game from Mattel. I'll have to pitch that one to them.
The BH's version might be called.... punch-a-douche?
Does anyone else believe that she is contacting me to see if we are done so she can pounce?
Possibly, or else she is just looking for any window into his life, even if it is through you.