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MrsDoubtfire (original poster member #24786) posted at 9:25 AM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013
So. FWH says he's going to play sports and he will be out of my way for a couple of hours so I can play with all my new birthday toys he's bought me!!
I don't mind much but it's my birthday!!! I can play with my new toys any time!! On my birthday I'd prefer to spend it with him!! 
THIS dear SI ers is that same selfish streak all ws's seem to posess without realising it.
Whilst he's made insurmountable changes to himself since we R there's still the odd fuckwit slip that occurs!!! 
Still, he HAS bought me some nice stuff so him not being here for an hour or so does give me opportunity to play uninterrupted.
ETA: step aside now. There's birthday cake a callin'
[This message edited by MrsDoubtfire at 3:27 AM, April 18th (Thursday)]
BS(Me) FWH(Him) DDay 05.09
A went underground. True R 02.10
I won't let another woman reap the benefit of enjoying the man my H has now become†
forgivingnow ( member #33549) posted at 1:18 PM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013
Wishing you a very happy birthday!!
Me-BS 57
FWH-57
M 37yrs.
Dday 3-19-11, TT 10/2011, Full truth July 2013
Strength comes from within. You can't get it from someone or go somewhere to get it. It is already here, waiting to be used when you need it most. Believe in yours
FeelsSoRight ( member #28377) posted at 2:00 PM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013
Happy Birthday, Mrs. D! Eat some birthday cake for me, too...YUM!
As long as he's not going to be gone all day, you two can enjoy the evening together - maybe a nice dinner out? A nice dinner HE cooks 
and a movie at home?
And enjoy the new toys...but do tell...what did he get you?
Me - W - 48
Him - H - 47
Together since we were 14/15
Married 27 yrs in August (renewed our vows in 2011-H's idea!)
DD-23, DS-15
Separated for 7 mos & were 3 wks from divorce when we reconciled
Happily R for almost 4 years
Tred ( member #34086) posted at 2:17 PM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013
Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)
girlsbird ( member #30877) posted at 4:09 PM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013
Happy Birthday Mrs. D. And go ahead, play with your new toys and totally enjoy yourself!
D-Day 10/28/10..almost admission 7/10 Reconciled. I was the betrayed
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 10:09 PM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
padstack ( member #37202) posted at 11:20 PM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013
Happy Birthday!!
I did this dumbass move a few years ago to fWW. I still feel bad about it when it pops in my mind (or when she reminds me on every subsequent birthday 
).
Enjoy your cake!
Me: BH 37
Her: fWW 34 (Lulu38)
DD 8
DS 3
D-Day #1 9/17/12 Admitted to EA
D-Day #2 10/18/12 Finally confessed to PA with coworker
Status: working towards R...
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 12:19 AM on Friday, April 19th, 2013
Happy Birthday! I hope it's wonderful. 
brokensunflower ( member #38674) posted at 12:21 AM on Friday, April 19th, 2013
me 34
him 34
7 wonderful kids 14 yrs 10 yrs 7 yrs 6 yrs and 4 yrs 2yr ..and new baby
married 15years together for 12
my give a damn is busted
marion ( member #33625) posted at 12:26 AM on Friday, April 19th, 2013
Happy Birthday! Hope you enjoy your day!
confused82402 ( member #34616) posted at 2:16 AM on Friday, April 19th, 2013
Me- BW
Him - WH
Dday - 1/16/2012
~Honey, don't try to make sense out of nonsense...you'll drive yourself crazy in the process ~ my momma :-)
NoraLee ( member #37922) posted at 2:38 AM on Friday, April 19th, 2013
Happy bday! I too see that old streak in H despite all the positive changes. His tactic is to ask permission - forcing me to play the bad guy...hate it!
What kind of toys did you get?
Me - BW - 44
Him - FWH - 42
Married 16 years
D day - 1/2 truth - July 2012
Full disclosure - August 2012
EA with skanky waitress coworker
3 kids - 14, 16, 21
In R
FeelsSoRight ( member #28377) posted at 4:06 AM on Friday, April 19th, 2013
Mrs. D is either enouying her toys or spending a nice birthday evening with Mr. D because she has been too busyto come back to this thread to tell us what her gifts were!
Me - W - 48
Him - H - 47
Together since we were 14/15
Married 27 yrs in August (renewed our vows in 2011-H's idea!)
DD-23, DS-15
Separated for 7 mos & were 3 wks from divorce when we reconciled
Happily R for almost 4 years
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