My sister sent me this poem that really struck a chord with me. Maybe it can help someone out there is SI land :-). I posted this in D/S but I think it might be more at home here
So hold your head high gorgeous,
People would kill to see you fall,
In the dead of the night they canít hear you screaming
You swear revenge, against them all.
So stay strong beautiful,
It wonít matter it they think less of you here,
But you cry by the window when wishes in moonlight donít come true
Doesnít mean you have to fear.
So never take the words he said to heart darling,
He has no idea what he meant,
To you it meant a life time,
To him, a lie worth less than a cent.
So donít drown yourself in what you call medicine honey,
It will only do you harm,
because you never got drunk enough to get him off your mind.
So donít believe you will never amount to anything sweetie,
You truly have no idea what your worth,
I see what youíre trying to hide from me,
I understand how much youíre hurt.
So donít be afraid to crumble love,
Have you even forgotten who you are?
You walk around thinking you arenít beautiful,
The truth could never have been more far...
So when you forget about him,
Donít regret the pain you felt,
Itíll only make you better
And youíll know how to play the hand youíre dealt.
So Hold you head high gorgeous,
Show the world your fine,
Donít give in to the heartache,
Because People would kill to see you fall...
Me- SAHM 30yo BS
Him- 32yo WS
Three kids, 9, 7, 10mo
Their baby was born in Sept and they are happily househunting. He finally left 4/03.