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User Topic: Offer some solace maybe?
♀ 38658
Member # 38658
Default  Posted: 7:54 AM, April 18th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My sister sent me this poem that really struck a chord with me. Maybe it can help someone out there is SI land :-). I posted this in D/S but I think it might be more at home here

So hold your head high gorgeous,
People would kill to see you fall,
In the dead of the night they canít hear you screaming
You swear revenge, against them all.

So stay strong beautiful,
It wonít matter it they think less of you here,
But you cry by the window when wishes in moonlight donít come true
Doesnít mean you have to fear.

So never take the words he said to heart darling,
He has no idea what he meant,
To you it meant a life time,
To him, a lie worth less than a cent.

So donít drown yourself in what you call medicine honey,
It will only do you harm,
because you never got drunk enough to get him off your mind.

So donít believe you will never amount to anything sweetie,
You truly have no idea what your worth,
I see what youíre trying to hide from me,
I understand how much youíre hurt.

So donít be afraid to crumble love,
Have you even forgotten who you are?
You walk around thinking you arenít beautiful,
The truth could never have been more far...

So when you forget about him,
Donít regret the pain you felt,
Itíll only make you better
And youíll know how to play the hand youíre dealt.

So Hold you head high gorgeous,
Show the world your fine,
Donít give in to the heartache,
Because People would kill to see you fall...

Me- SAHM 30yo BS
Him- 32yo WS
Three kids, 9, 7, 10mo

Their baby was born in Sept and they are happily househunting. He finally left 4/03.

Posts: 80 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: New Jersey
♀ 38405
Member # 38405
Default  Posted: 8:20 AM, April 18th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

*hugs* for us both....

Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!

Posts: 680 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: DC
♂ 38914
Member # 38914
Default  Posted: 9:01 AM, April 18th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for sharing. Beautiful poem!

D-day:2/24/13 (I was 10 weeks pregnant at the time and DS was 15 months)
Status: Parted ways!

"If only I can fight just a little longer, I know it's gonna make me stronger" Jamie Grace-Holding on.

Posts: 539 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Ohio
♂ 38561
Member # 38561
Default  Posted: 6:31 PM, April 18th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


ME - A new person
HER - A waining memory
DDay - 2/22/2013
2-3 month EA/PA
Together for 6 years, ready to start my life . . .

"I can fill the flask up, but can't get past us
I'm in the storm, staying strong, but can't get back

Posts: 177 | Registered: Feb 2013
♀ 38674
Member # 38674
Default  Posted: 6:34 PM, April 18th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

beautiful poem it hit home with me and how I have felt for 7 months now

me 34
him 34
7 wonderful kids 14 yrs 10 yrs 7 yrs 6 yrs and 4 yrs 2yr ..and new baby
married 15years together for 12

my give a damn is busted

Posts: 265 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: cold ohio
♀ 38928
Member # 38928
Default  Posted: 2:07 AM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nice...thanks for sharing.

BS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - 2 adult DDs - DS20 Deceased
Happily divorced!

~Indifference - Because some people do not deserve your emotions.~

I edit often because my tablet is possessed!

Posts: 4962 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Land of Indifference
♀ 38391
Member # 38391
Default  Posted: 6:17 AM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow. Thank you for that.

D-Day 11/15/12
5 month PA
Married 20 years, 3 kids
All good is hard. All evil is easy. Dying, losing, cheating, and mediocrity is easy. Stay away from easy.
- Scott Alexander
It was the day I thought I'd never get through - Daughtry

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