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User Topic: Wanna flirt, but don't think I can?
♀ 19772
Member # 19772
Default  Posted: 10:31 PM, April 18th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Long story short - I encounter a guy for a while. He works at a store I frequent. He's always been little flirty, but I assume that's his 'way'.

Like 2 weeks ago, we actually talk a bit, like more than the flirty exchange. I 'think' he half-assed suggested we get to know each other more? I, in WBN style, panic and run off.

Eww, but now I'm like thinking about him! I saw him tonight but was on my phone talking to a GF. He was all (I think?) flirty - imitating my accent, adding shit to my conversation...being a goof!). But I like this?! He's younger and so not my type looks wise, but his personality is hilarz and it takes a bit to make me laugh and/or grab my attention. He has.

So what do I do now? I kinda feel like saying fuck it - and talking to him, like here's my number. But that is SO.NOT.ME.

I may be moving soon - so like fuck it, give it a shot and if it's awful, find a new store for the meantime?! I'm so not flirty; I'm the 'flirt' who says the wrong shit and falls on her ass while walking away. LOL!

Posts: 14560 | Registered: Jun 2008
♀ 36144
Member # 36144
Default  Posted: 11:02 AM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Go for it! If it doesn't work out, you can move away, lol

Me BS 47
Him WS 51
DDay LTA Feb 21, 2006
R until DDay 2EA's 1/31/12 ONS 2/5/12 Broken NC 7/12/12
Moved out 9/12
Legally Separated 3/13

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♂ 33699
Member # 33699
Default  Posted: 11:18 AM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Forget the age difference. SAy hello and go with the conversation. You might make a new friend and maybe it will become something more. You have nothing to lose and might just have some fun too.

"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie

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