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User Topic: hugs please...
luvbug0915
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Default  Posted: 10:17 AM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Having a rough day. SO and I are in discussion about possibly ending our relationship. My heart hurts so much I can barely breathe.


"I haven't stopped looking for the good in people. I've just accepted the fact that I'm not always going to find it."-Patti LaBelle


Posts: 1053 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Metro Atlanta
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 10:20 AM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((luvbug)))))


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 53024 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Survivor3512
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Default  Posted: 10:22 AM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Luvbug))))


Me (BS)- 36
Divorced
----------------------------------------------------------
Just keep swimming, just keep swimming- Dorie

Posts: 293 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Southeastern U.S.
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 10:26 AM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((luvbug))))

Posts: 36492 | Registered: Mar 2011
luvbug0915
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Default  Posted: 10:33 AM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for the hugs.

He is an amazing man and we love each other deeply, that's what makes this so difficult.

I think we have just come to an impasse, we are at different points in our lives and it would take tremendous sacrifice on both parts to make it work for the long haul.

We still have a lot to talk about and a lot of thinking to do but I'm really not sure which way this will go.

I know I will be okay if it ends and I would actually prefer it to end while we still have such love and respect for each other.

This just sucks.


"I haven't stopped looking for the good in people. I've just accepted the fact that I'm not always going to find it."-Patti LaBelle


Posts: 1053 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Metro Atlanta
exhausted lady
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Default  Posted: 11:17 AM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((luvbug)))

It sure sucks when it's the right guy, but the wrong time. Shit. My heart hurts for you. Big hugs!!!


Sometimes the hardest part of finally seeing through someone is accepting what you see...

God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to
change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.
-Reinhold Neibuhr


Posts: 3168 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: Colorado
luvbug0915
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Default  Posted: 11:36 AM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you EL. What makes it worse is that we live together. I hate moving!


"I haven't stopped looking for the good in people. I've just accepted the fact that I'm not always going to find it."-Patti LaBelle


Posts: 1053 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Metro Atlanta
Exit Wounds
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Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((luvbug)))))

Posts: 2486 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: With my dad...and my dog...
sunfish
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Default  Posted: 11:44 AM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((luvbug)))


Me BS (49)
Him (STBXH (49)
DDay#1 07/10
DDay #2 08/10
DDay#3 09/10
02/11 He moved in for R
4/4/12 - he wants a Divorce...
4/18/12 - he moved out
11/13 - after much negotiation, we decide to R.

"...because you don't move to a sm


Posts: 160 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Left Coast
foreverempty
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Default  Posted: 12:27 PM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Luvbug)))


Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.

Posts: 645 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: United Kingdom
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:36 PM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((luvbug))))


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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luvbug0915
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Default  Posted: 1:10 PM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It looks like the decision is made. It's over...


"I haven't stopped looking for the good in people. I've just accepted the fact that I'm not always going to find it."-Patti LaBelle


Posts: 1053 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Metro Atlanta
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 1:18 PM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry. We're here for you.

(((luvbug0915)))


"If the path you walk leads back to yourself, you'll never get anywhere." - Master Oogway

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stupidstupidme
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Default  Posted: 1:53 PM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry. That really does suck


Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength
August Wilson

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swizzlestick03
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Default  Posted: 2:00 PM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry luvbug0915.


Me: BW-33
Him: WS-32
D-Day #1: 16 August 2010
D-Day #2: 16 January 2011
One smallish kiddo.

Posts: 571 | Registered: Nov 2010
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 2:22 PM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((luvbug)))


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17712 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
better4me
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Default  Posted: 5:35 PM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((luvbug))) So sorry you are hurting.


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:53
Divorced

Posts: 3236 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
MyVoice
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Default  Posted: 5:35 PM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

:(
(((luvbug)))


Me:BW 46, Him:WH 50
two kids DD14 and DS17
Married 26 years
OW 28, crew member (he was the ships captain)
"People are formed by their actions, not their ideals" unknown

Posts: 476 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Australia
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 6:45 PM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7825 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
sadcat
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Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Whaaaa????? Oh sweetie I am so sorry. I am here if you need a friend.


I need not suffer in silence while I can still moan, whimper and complain.

If this isn't what I consider soulmate crap, I don't know what is.


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