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luvbug0915 (original poster member #22934) posted at 4:17 PM on Friday, April 19th, 2013
Having a rough day. SO and I are in discussion about possibly ending our relationship. My heart hurts so much I can barely breathe. 
"I haven't stopped looking for the good in people. I've just accepted the fact that I'm not always going to find it."-Patti LaBelle
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 4:20 PM on Friday, April 19th, 2013
Survivor3512 ( member #37946) posted at 4:22 PM on Friday, April 19th, 2013
Me (BS)- 36
Divorced
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Just keep swimming, just keep swimming- Dorie
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 4:26 PM on Friday, April 19th, 2013
luvbug0915 (original poster member #22934) posted at 4:33 PM on Friday, April 19th, 2013
Thank you for the hugs.
He is an amazing man and we love each other deeply, that's what makes this so difficult.
I think we have just come to an impasse, we are at different points in our lives and it would take tremendous sacrifice on both parts to make it work for the long haul.
We still have a lot to talk about and a lot of thinking to do but I'm really not sure which way this will go.
I know I will be okay if it ends and I would actually prefer it to end while we still have such love and respect for each other.
This just sucks.
"I haven't stopped looking for the good in people. I've just accepted the fact that I'm not always going to find it."-Patti LaBelle
exhausted lady ( member #30217) posted at 5:17 PM on Friday, April 19th, 2013
(((luvbug)))
It sure sucks when it's the right guy, but the wrong time. Shit. My heart hurts for you. Big hugs!!!
Sometimes the hardest part of finally seeing through someone is accepting what you see...
God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to
change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.
-Reinhold Neibuhr
luvbug0915 (original poster member #22934) posted at 5:36 PM on Friday, April 19th, 2013
Thank you EL. What makes it worse is that we live together. I hate moving!
"I haven't stopped looking for the good in people. I've just accepted the fact that I'm not always going to find it."-Patti LaBelle
Exit Wounds ( member #32811) posted at 5:39 PM on Friday, April 19th, 2013
Exit WoundsH of 17 years got gf pregnant, left our kids 9 & 11 and we never saw him again. -His choice.
sunfish ( member #33153) posted at 5:44 PM on Friday, April 19th, 2013
foreverempty ( member #34426) posted at 6:27 PM on Friday, April 19th, 2013
Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 6:36 PM on Friday, April 19th, 2013
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
luvbug0915 (original poster member #22934) posted at 7:10 PM on Friday, April 19th, 2013
It looks like the decision is made. It's over...
"I haven't stopped looking for the good in people. I've just accepted the fact that I'm not always going to find it."-Patti LaBelle
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 7:18 PM on Friday, April 19th, 2013
I'm so sorry. We're here for you.
(((luvbug0915)))
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
stupidstupidme ( member #11888) posted at 7:53 PM on Friday, April 19th, 2013
I'm so sorry. That really does suck
Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength
August Wilson
swizzlestick03 ( member #30102) posted at 8:00 PM on Friday, April 19th, 2013
Me: BW-36
Him: WS-35
D-Day #1: 16 August 2010
D-Day #2: 16 January 2011
One smallish kiddo.
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 8:22 PM on Friday, April 19th, 2013
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
better4me ( member #30341) posted at 11:35 PM on Friday, April 19th, 2013
(((luvbug))) So sorry you are hurting.
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
MyVoice ( member #35695) posted at 11:35 PM on Friday, April 19th, 2013
Me:BW 46, Him:WH 50
two kids DD14 and DS17
Married 26 years
OW 28, crew member (he was the ships captain)
"People are formed by their actions, not their ideals" unknown
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 12:45 AM on Saturday, April 20th, 2013
I'm sorry.
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
sadcat ( member #8637) posted at 1:33 AM on Saturday, April 20th, 2013
Whaaaa????? Oh sweetie I am so sorry. I am here if you need a friend.
Never let your fear decide your fate.....AWOLNATION
If this isn't what I consider soulmate crap, I don't know what is.
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