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User Topic: Not sure how to feel
♀ 38928
Member # 38928
Default  Posted: 3:05 PM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My DD16 just called me and said, "guess who just texted me?" I, of course, said, "Who?" Her response, "My sperm donor..."

Not sure if I should be laughing or crying about that one. Laughing because it is really funny, actually, or crying because that is how she feels about her father at the moment. She was his "little girl" for years (until teenage hormones kicked in).

BS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - 2 adult DDs - DS20 Deceased
Happily divorced!

~Indifference - Because some people do not deserve your emotions.~

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Posts: 5084 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Land of Indifference
♂ 37322
Member # 37322
Default  Posted: 3:15 PM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think you gotta just laugh about this one. WH is gonna have a lot to answer to if he ever wants to patch things up with DD. Ride the emotion with her.


D-Day: 8/27/12
Me: BBF (29)
WXGF: Confused26 (27) EA/PA with xBF, lasted almost a year. TT, blameshifting, gaslighting, & broken NC for 10 months.
DS: 3
Together 5 years

3+ years later and I am doing great! Hell of a ride but well worth it.

Posts: 318 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: New England
♀ 38765
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Default  Posted: 3:50 PM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Laugh about it. Tell her she knows he loves her even if his actions make it seem unlikely.
Lets be honest...he deserves it.

Posts: 304 | Registered: Mar 2013
♀ 35812
Member # 35812
Default  Posted: 5:27 PM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, sometimes you gotta call it like you see it. And it sounds like she has.

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012

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