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User Topic: proud of my DS. one reason I'm glad I left X.
♀ 19258
Member # 19258
Default  Posted: 5:10 PM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My DS is quiet introverted person. He has an extremely kind hear. He's a poet/writer of sorts. I've often described him as very self contained.

He hasn't done a lot of dating. He fell hard for a girl last spring. She sort of strung him along in the friend zone for a while. Then decided she wanted to date him exclusively, then she wanted him to be exclusive but she didn't want it to apply to her.

He drew a line and said no. He doesn't have a lot of confidence when it comes to girls so I was surprised. He knows he deserves and should be treated better. Its just a HS heartbreak but I'm dang proud of him. It was very hard for him and she would've strung him a long as long as he put up with it.

I feel like not tolerating the non-sense from my X was a good example for him. I feel badly that he's hurting but I'm glad he knows better!

But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler

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Default  Posted: 6:44 PM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yup! I have a nephew that stood up to his "I may want to date other people" girlfriend. I think my experience showed him that we all deserve better than that shit.

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 9177 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
♂ 38681
Member # 38681
Default  Posted: 8:04 PM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well done! I know of a coworker's son who's GF can't decide on whom to choose between. Poor fellow is being dragged on and on.
I'd say quit the race and throw away the "prize".

BH 33
FWW 32
DS: 3 year old.
Dday 10/14/2012
No remorse so:
Divorced 02/15/2013. No alimony, no CS, got apartment. Won all battles and mind games off the courts.

Posts: 294 | Registered: Mar 2013
♀ 36134
Member # 36134
Default  Posted: 4:12 AM, April 20th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He does deserve better... and how wonderful that he knows it and can stand up for himself to get it.

The right girl will come along, they are out there... I am raising 4 of them.



I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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