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User Topic: how R we gonna live together during this?
♀ 39031
Member # 39031
Default  Posted: 11:14 PM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I posted recently, but since then i did put a tracker on my HB phone and phone pics of his privates and pics of other womans privates. VERY DISCUSTING to even imagine. I wanted to throw up right at my computer but i was too furious.

He fell asleep after a long day of work so i knew it was my perfect chance. So i plugged the tracker and his phone into the computer and WALLA!!! to my surprise. Pics from back in Aug of last year. So i down loaded them all on my desk top, open them all up at once and minimize them to the point where they all would fit on the homepage, and i woke him up IMMEDIATELY. I nice and politely asked him to wake up and see what's wrong with the monitor. So when he opened his eyes, it was like he saw a ghost. He didnt say a word for atleast 10 mins an niether did i. I wanted answers and now was the time to give them to me. So he did!! he went thru atleast 2 woman that he sexted and chatted with. But that wasnt enough for me. I know in my heart theres more, and he keeps saying "how can we move on if your going to keep digging up stuff". I got furious, asked him to leave, and he left....end of story for tonight.

Married 8 yrs
No children
1 A, & 2nd time caught cheating with several woman

Posts: 11 | Registered: Apr 2013
♂ 34195
Member # 34195
Default  Posted: 11:38 PM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lastnfinalchance, nothing to say except that you've been heard and I'm so sorry for you. Try and hang in there tonight and also try and get some sleep. I know, easier said then done... but please try.


Me-BH Her-XWW | B/ 59 on D-day (11/17/11) | D final on 10/1/13 I'm Lovin' life again!
Rest of the story really doesn't matter any more.
“Realize deeply that the present moment is all you have.” ― Eckhart Tolle

Posts: 926 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Midwest
♀ 39046
Member # 39046
Default  Posted: 11:43 PM, April 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Try to sleep, I know its hard. I just found out two nights ago my husband is sleeping with a co worker and wants a divorce. I am trying to focus on what I need and want right now. Its not easy for me, one minute I want to reconcile and another minute I don't think I will ever get over this. Good Luck Girl!


Posts: 26 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Nebraska
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