WH or OW. Yesterday SIL said to me "well maybe you can just ignore what happened but I can't. This is really hard on me."
Excuse me? EXCUSE ME??? My husband (her brother) cheated on me with my friend. I chose to stay and try to deal with it and move forward because I love him. This is the hardest thing I have ever had to do in my life. This does not mean I am ignoring what happened. I lay on the floor sobbing in pure and complete devastation several times a week. I am broken, shattered and completely destroyed and will never be quite whole ever again. I have no choice but to pick myself up and continue moving forward though for myself, the baby I'm pregnant with and my 2 year old. There are days I would love to just lay in a dark room and hide from everything all day but I can't. So I'm doing my best to carry on.
This has been hard on her?? He may be her brother but she can not compare her dissapointment in him to mine. How does who he sleeps with really have anything to do with her?? She is a serial cheater. She has no concept for the pain a BS feels since she has only ever been a cheater.
I was so mad I quit talking to her and have not talked to her since. How can people be so insensitive?? Times like this I wish this had not blown up so publicly.