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User Topic: I did it!!!!
tesla
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Happy  Posted: 1:42 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I finished the swing set! Only took me 2.5 times longer than the directions said it would. The roof was a mother-fucker. Now I know why all the other ones I see have a canvas tent roof.

It feels good because I worry about stuff going wrong around the house...but if I can figure this out, I think I can do fix-it stuff around the house.

I can't wait to pick up Teslet!! I feel like I've just put the Christmas gifts out Christmas Eve. But even better...Teslet knew I was building it this weekend....I hope he talked ex-shat's ear off about it!

Lie-lie approves of it as well...think she'll be using underneath the rock wall like a dog house.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4734 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
dlmos
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Default  Posted: 1:48 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome job! Teslet may never want to come back in the house

I've built one of those before though and you should be very proud of your work.


BH (32)
DS - 7, DD - 6
Divorced

Posts: 461 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Fort Worth,Texas
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 1:49 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is so cool! You rock, tesla.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12170 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
meaniemouse
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Default  Posted: 1:50 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's beautiful! Be sure to get a picture of Teslet's face when he first sees it!


Act as if what you do matters. It does. William James

Posts: 2140 | Registered: May 2006 | From: Midwest
notmeanymore
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Default  Posted: 1:50 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love the sense of accomplishment that comes from tackling a big job like this.

Kudos to you, it looks fantastic!


"Put the cuckoo back in the clock baby" - Four Brothers

Posts: 877 | Registered: Feb 2006
Survivor3512
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Default  Posted: 1:51 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great job! It looks amazing!!! I bet teslet loves it!


Me (BS)- 36
Divorced
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Just keep swimming, just keep swimming- Dorie

Posts: 293 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Southeastern U.S.
foreverempty
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Default  Posted: 1:57 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That looks amazing. Well done!


Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.

Posts: 645 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: United Kingdom
permanentpain
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Default  Posted: 2:27 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Beautiful!!!!


Me: 32 y/o, student and mom of two of the best kids in the world
Him: 33 y/o scumbag
Divorcing
Feels good to start laughing and feeling better again...

Posts: 270 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Island
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 2:50 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome job Momma!!!

I bet your little guy is soo excited to see it, that he did talk X's ear off about it.

You've done good.

Hugs,

K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5528 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Griefstricken25
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Default  Posted: 3:11 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's awesome!! YOU did awesome! Teslet will love it!


Me!
3 amazing kidlets
To WXH "Now you're just somebody that I used to know." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d9NF2edxy-M
D-day and separation - June, 2009
Divorced - December, 2011

Posts: 2529 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: A better place
CheaterMagnet
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Default  Posted: 3:23 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great job!!! It's empowering to find out that we can actually do more than we think we can. Good for you Tesla!

Oh, and I LOVE your yard! So big and green and light.


If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

Posts: 1051 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Kailua-Kona, HI
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 3:42 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow wow wow!! You did it yourself?!??? Crazy woman, hear you roar!!

Mama of the year award, right here folks! Teslet is gonna be stoked!!


divorced the Dooosh
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even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3630 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
KeepOnMovin
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Default  Posted: 3:43 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

looks amazing! Awesome job!


Me: BH
Her: who cares?
Married: 22 years
2 sons at home
1 son in college
Divorced on 9/4/14!
Often it's the deepest pain which empowers you to grow into your highest self.

Posts: 389 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Midwest
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 4:00 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's awesome! It looks great!!! I can't wait to have a backyard and some kind of play equipment for my kiddos.


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4223 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
courageous
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Default  Posted: 4:37 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That looks awesome!! I know it will mean so much more for him because you did it for him.


Me: BW (35)
Him: ExWH (31) EA/PA with MOW coworker
Married 9 years, 2 small kids
dday 3/12/2011 divorced fall 2012

My ipad does a lot of crazy typos.


Posts: 659 | Registered: Jan 2012
MyVoice
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Default  Posted: 4:50 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome job

I do all my own renovations and your right the fact you did this shows you can do anything around the house, you have taught yourself a huge set of skills! (maybe not electrical/plumbing )


Me:BW 46, Him:WH 50
two kids DD14 and DS17
Married 26 years
OW 28, crew member (he was the ships captain)
"People are formed by their actions, not their ideals" unknown

Posts: 476 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Australia
redvixen
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Default  Posted: 5:04 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That looks wonderful, you did a great job!


Me, BS Him WS early 40's at the start, cheated before and after cancer diagnosis.
Two A's, two OW's, online looking for sex partners, two false R's.
Threw him out in January 2009.
Divorce final March 30th, 2010

XWH died Dec. 2010


Posts: 4105 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: New Jersey
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 5:27 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome job!


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7816 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Housefulloflove
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Default  Posted: 5:28 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Beautiful! Good job.


Me-29 Starting over
ExWH-29 Probable NPD, PA, manchild
3 beautiful young children
DDay 1/20/13 Admits PA
No remorse so NO R. DIVORCED! 9/2013

Posts: 541 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: USA
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 5:42 PM, April 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And the dog likes it!


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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