OMG, it's the same for me!
OW texted me when STBXH broke it off to return to M.
She made very bold FB pages chuck full of his pictures- and they were pictures I took and were on my computer that he took-this is a huge trigger for me and painful, but you guys-or girls-are not alone in this.
STBXH also created multiple pages on FB and other sites. He put is own real name as married to me and then widower and put her family and his and our daughter and dog who died. It really messed up my mind.
OW put my/our daughter with him on her page, my/our dog, my f'ing house. His birthday party last year, that I made and took the photos and vacations of ours with them and me cut out.
WTF? I asked him several times to get DD the F out of his and he did that I knew of of, but he was extremely angry that I would ask the same of OW. He acted clueless about why she ought to? WTF?
When we got to L stage he actually called my friends who found the pages a liar. Well, they printed it all out. OW even put his full name and dates to boot.
Well, those dates were my birthday week a year ago.
What I don't undestand is that Perv doesn't want our daughter to know all the details-there is a daughter there I call OW Junior that was hers, supposedly that it feels like he replaced our daughter with. There's some really bizarre other stuff to that I am not ready for our daughter to learn of. him being gone is plenty.
I feel sad for Sunshine and others on this particular thread. It is agony to actually see. I finally saw her picture last year and was physically sick. It ruined fb for me completely and makes me feel totally mocked.
Here's a question. Why would he leave my name and writing on his page and then twist it all up with another page? He called our M a "rouse", so maybe that was part of it?
I'm so sorry for the letter the OW wrote here. OW in the case of Perv thinks she's going to save him or fix him, when his personal issues are so damn deep and he won't deal with them honestly, so how can she think she will keep him happy? He's also SA and PA and NPD but she doesn't know it.
I'm so sad that people take the social networks and use them to be hurtful. I also don't go on it because of the amount of kids that are on it-I don't want to be associated with anything that hurts kids like that does, though I know it's the users and not corporation.
Perv also told OW that our M was miserable, but was intimate and interested over fall and winter, so he must have told some whoppers of lies as yours have done as well.
I once was sidled up to by this little pudgy, mustached man who offered me a drink after work one day. He began this story about his son and then moved onto his wife and how awful he is treated. But he can't leave her for all these reasons that didn't make sense. I kicked him in the crotch and politely said "No, thank you" and showed him my wedding ring. This was 19 years ago and makes Perv angry because when he was solicited, he did not honor me the same way. I have such hurt about this loyalty not being recriprocated.
And, it's the oldest pick up line in the book!
Ow told me that was Perv's song and dance, so my two texts to her were to tell her that and to thank her sarcastically for the possiblity of STD's.
You gave me nothing and now it's all I've got - Bono
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.