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isthis4real posted 4/21/2013 19:01 PM
I have always been proud of myself for how I handle xWH. He's got to me a few times during our divorce but i do a good job keeping him at a distance. he wants to take dd on vacation when i want too.
our decree is very clear. in even years he has first choice in odd years i do.
so to make sure i could not go on vacation when i want to he bought a non refundable vacation package already and told dd they were going to florida. she is beyond thrilled.
i am furious. that son of a bitch!! i want to cuss him out. he has been getting more and more brazen but this is the biggest stunt he has pulled so far.
i am the bad guy if i enforce the custody agreement. i really want to fuck him over right now.
Heavy Sigh posted 4/21/2013 19:12 PM
Unless there is a specific reason and event, just change the vacation date.
The more you react, the more he will amp up the sabotage.
roughroadahead posted 4/21/2013 19:47 PM
Agreed. Pick your battles. Your DD is excited, try to share that with her. Your XH is probably looking for a reaction, some sign that he can still get to you. Don't give him the satisfaction.