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isthis4real (original poster member #29698) posted at 1:01 AM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
I have always been proud of myself for how I handle xWH. He's got to me a few times during our divorce but i do a good job keeping him at a distance. he wants to take dd on vacation when i want too.
our decree is very clear. in even years he has first choice in odd years i do.
so to make sure i could not go on vacation when i want to he bought a non refundable vacation package already and told dd they were going to florida. she is beyond thrilled.
i am furious. that son of a bitch!! i want to cuss him out. he has been getting more and more brazen but this is the biggest stunt he has pulled so far.
i am the bad guy if i enforce the custody agreement. i really want to fuck him over right now.
Me BW 30
WH 37
Married 4 years
DD 3
(2) DSS 15 & 18
D-day 9/3/10
Kicked him out 9/26/10 for fence sitting
WH served with divorce papers 10/4/10 at his place of employment
No chance of R.
Rebuilding and looking forward to a brig
Heavy Sigh ( member #34243) posted at 1:12 AM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
Unless there is a specific reason and event, just change the vacation date.
The more you react, the more he will amp up the sabotage.
roughroadahead ( member #36060) posted at 1:47 AM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
Agreed. Pick your battles. Your DD is excited, try to share that with her. Your XH is probably looking for a reaction, some sign that he can still get to you. Don't give him the satisfaction.
BS-Me 30s
WS-Him 30s
D-Day 4/2012 (Insisted EA only)
D-Day 5/2012 (Did I say EA? Ummm..)
Numerous other TT/broken NC d-days until S 1/2013. D settled 11/2013
MOW-coworker, 40s.
2 DS and DD all w/autism
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