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I have always been proud of myself for how I handle xWH. He's got to me a few times during our divorce but i do a good job keeping him at a distance. he wants to take dd on vacation when i want too.

our decree is very clear. in even years he has first choice in odd years i do.

so to make sure i could not go on vacation when i want to he bought a non refundable vacation package already and told dd they were going to florida. she is beyond thrilled.

i am furious. that son of a bitch!! i want to cuss him out. he has been getting more and more brazen but this is the biggest stunt he has pulled so far.

i am the bad guy if i enforce the custody agreement. i really want to fuck him over right now.

Unless there is a specific reason and event, just change the vacation date.

The more you react, the more he will amp up the sabotage.

Agreed. Pick your battles. Your DD is excited, try to share that with her. Your XH is probably looking for a reaction, some sign that he can still get to you. Don't give him the satisfaction.